Want Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Hey, I'm 17 years old and yesterday me and my 2 months girlfriend decided to take it further, we're both ready, we've discussed it.. Anyway, whilst kissing etc. i do get hard, but as soon as she got it out for me and so on, it just wouldn't go hard. This was emabrrasing and she was thinking it was her fault and as was i.. ! First thing first, no, i'm not gay, and i have no problem any other time! So was this just a first time thing? if so, is there any experienced advice to give me in order to avoid this problem second time around? ! Want.
northstar1 Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Hey, I'm 17 years old and yesterday me and my 2 months girlfriend decided to take it further, we're both ready, we've discussed it.. Anyway, whilst kissing etc. i do get hard, but as soon as she got it out for me and so on, it just wouldn't go hard. This was emabrrasing and she was thinking it was her fault and as was i.. ! First thing first, no, i'm not gay, and i have no problem any other time! So was this just a first time thing? if so, is there any experienced advice to give me in order to avoid this problem second time around? ! Want. just nerves my man.
IcemanJB Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 It's happened to me before. It was exactly how you described it too. I remember being extremely nervous right as we were about to and then that **** happened...just like you said, I was perfectly fine kissing/going down on her, but right as the main event was about to happen, it all "went south". She was very cool about it though...once I calmed down I had no problems after that.
wuggle Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Relax, this is quite common first or second time, you are so wound up with anticipation etc that your body is going WTF. Dont make a big deal out of it , you'll be fine.
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 And so begins the vicious cycle - the more you think about it, the worse it'll get. It's just the jitters. Very common. But really - the more you're nervous about getting hard, the more difficult it will be to GET hard. Just give it time and don't put so much pressure on yourself.
colosseum Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 Yeah, wasn't pretty when it happened to me but soon broke out of that. Don't think about it. Just do it; seriously.
Citizen Erased Posted June 11, 2009 Posted June 11, 2009 It happens, it's really not a big deal. You were probably nervous. Once you get more comfortable around each other it will be fine.
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