Soul Bear Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 So you want to break up with someone? I'll give you some advice for free. Dont do it just yet. Try and work things out between you. TALK about the problems and see if you can come with an understanding to make things work. Come up with a gameplan to how its going to work and what you can BOTH do to make it more exciting and fix those problems, whatever they were.. Too many people these days are just throwing it away, work on it, and work on it some more. Dont lose what you have, if its good on the whole, you might never find that again. Dont think after you break their heart they will come back. That kind of trust is hard to win back again. You might lose them forever, and you would possibly regret it down the line. Nothing ever comes easy. True Love included. You might be throwing away the best thing you ever had.... A short term infatuation can lead to a long term regret....so think VERY carefully before you do this.
Exit Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Man I wish you would send this to my ex. She made zero effort to discuss the problems with me before leaving. She says I only offered to change for her after she left me, and I say she never gave me the chance! If she would have said "I'm GOING to leave if this doesn't change" instead of "I'm leaving and this is why..." we could still be together. She definitely has a case of "greener grass" syndrome. Just finished school, probably has a nice job lined up already, and feels like she can continue on without me and do better. I dream of the day a woman loves me enough to realize what you typed out. Love is not always easy. Commitment means nothing if you are only committed when everything is going great.
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