rosboy Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Yesteday I wrote about my girlfriend who split up with me or said she needed time to think things through about our realtionship of 6 years. There has been good times and bad times but we love each other. I found out that behind this she was meeting someone else which really upset and hurt me. No doubt she could not think clearly with an outside influence or rather lying in his bed at the same time. I appreciate the comments made yesterday however I had the telephone number - by chnace and stealth of her new lover and I called him politely to talk. He took my call and listening and said how much he likes his new girlfriend - in other words my ex supposedly. I told him that she could not make her mind up whilst he was in the frame and also although he liked her I told him that she was sleeping with me and him around the same time. I also told himto sttep aside and let us try and patch things up as his influence currently affects what we can do and lets try and salvage 6 years. I need time but i need him to back off. I also told him that if I lost then he would be the winner but my ex is confused and finishing it with me in one respect ahd a lot to do with him and does not give her time to think things through properly- he said he would still be her friend but that he beleived thta she had finished with me which is partly right but my ex was confused at the time and could not think staright to suddenly jump straight into another realtionship-how could she- your thoughts please?
Thornton Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 The girl dumped you - leave her alone and stop trying to sabotage her new relationship. You don't love each other - you love her - there's an important difference!
NopeNah Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 She had left you long before the actual words came out of her mouth. Thas why it seems(to you) that she started over so fast. Shes been going/gone for a bit now..let her be.
MissViolet Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 First, I'm sorry for you in this situation, it really sucks when they move on....But what were you thinking?! If your exgf doesn't know what she wants that pretty much means she doesn't want what she has (you). And calling up her new bf, pretty much begging him to leave her and giving him the details, personally for me, is really -lack of a better word- pathetic. I just feel that you should gather whatever you have left of yourself and move on. If she wants to be with you then she'll know where to find you, but if that happens, hopefully you'll be over her by then. And like the other poster said, your ex had probably detached herself from you even before you guys broke up.
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