elly.ono Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 How do you know when you're over and done with your ex?? any particular signs apart from getting back on the dating scene (how do you know its not a rebound thing)?? Moving on ain't that easy I've tried, even though your ex may have treated you like crap. I know I can't. Too painful. The endless questions of why! ... one of these days, love, one of these days!
asuman Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 I know I'm done when I think about her being with another person and it doesn't really bother me anymore.
Exit Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 I know I'm over it when I can talk to them, and if they tell me their life is going great, or they met someone, and I don't feel that sudden pain in my heart. For me this usually only comes after a looong time of not talking to them. I occassionally talk to my ex from like 3 years ago and she tells me she's seeing people or whatever and I don't care at all. But this is a girl who I completely accepted I wasn't meant to be with. If you never get over the feeling that you were meant to be together, it will never be easy to completely get over them.
Author elly.ono Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 So I guess this is how it feels like when you've gotten over someone cos I cant remember the last time I was in the relationship and the process of forgetting and forgiving someone. I ran into my ex 2 nights ago outside our apartment building (tragically we live on the same floor!!! - me on the 18th and him on the 1st). We just waved at each other (no voices involved and we were only about 52 inches apart!!!). We were going the opposite direction (me home and him heading out). Yeah didn't feel anything no more. Didn't come home crying like the first few weeks after we broke up. So you are so right. I've moved on. No more pain. I've forgotten but have I forgiven him for wot he did to me??? Oh well,dun matter anymore.
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