Curious37 Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 I met this guy about a year ago. We hooked up the first night we met. We spent the entire night talking and laughing. Then the next night I was at his buddys house, I gave him a call and said he should come over. By the time he showed up I was plastered and I didn't even say hello to him. I left before he had a chance to try talking to me. That next weekend a group of us went to the movies. We said little to each other before-hand and we didn't sit next to each other during the movie. However afterwards I boldly stated he looked good, and he was incredibly attractive ect. We flirted for a while, I came over to his house later that night. When I got there he asked me why I liked him so much the question caught me off gaurd since we had only hung out one time and we didn't really know each other. To top it off I had just gotten out of a serious relationship and to be honest I thought this new guy was seriously out of my league. So out of fear of rejection I said I didn't like him. 10 min later he asked me again and I gave the same answer. Then he said something along the lines of he doesn't mean to but he always break girls hearts. 5 min after he said so you don't like me, like 0% and I said yep 0% would never date a guy like you. After that he dropped it and we talked for a while and fooled around a little. I woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep so I went home and sent him a cute text instead of waking him up. The next night he had a party at his house, he knew I was coming. I got there and to my surprise he had a girlfriend. They had just gotten back together THAT morning. Irritated I told him I was going to leave and he proceeded to beg me to stay and kept saying he didn't want me to go. I left. We talked a little if at all over the past year. Now all of a sudden I've been running into him at parties lately. Its kind of awkward. Every time he hugs meand kisses my head when I first arrive. I always arrive before the girl he is somewhat dating shows up. Then after she shows up the hugs stop and we don't talk much but I catch him looking at me all the time, and sometimes I kind of feel like he's following me to whatever room I go to. A part of me thinks he's a ladies man, but another makes me wonder if he may have had feelings for me and maybe still does a little to this day... So just curious. Is he legitimately a player like I think? Or is it possible he liked me and my behavior send him running back to his ex? sorry so long!
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Don't worry I've read longer. Well is seems to me that he's a true Heartbreaker. Watch sooner or later his girlfriend is gonna find out about this pre-show of "affection" and she will flip out. I don't think he's interested in you because most guys who are Heartbreakers will (like this guy) state they do that. I say let him be and look for someone else, it just seems he likes to have you by a string. Hope this helps.
boogieboy Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 He might be a player, but you told him you liked him 0%. You played with his head anyway, so this is what you get. You wanted games, you got them. If he has a gf, and you want him exclusively, you gotta work at it to take him from her. You either work to get him exclusively, or you sit back and get nothing. And next time he asks you if you like him, you say YES! Stop playing games.
Author Curious37 Posted June 14, 2009 Author Posted June 14, 2009 He might be a player, but you told him you liked him 0%. You played with his head anyway, so this is what you get. You wanted games, you got them. If he has a gf, and you want him exclusively, you gotta work at it to take him from her. You either work to get him exclusively, or you sit back and get nothing. And next time he asks you if you like him, you say YES! Stop playing games. wow kinda mixed reviews so far! I didnt intend to play games. I told him I liked him 0% because I was so caught off gaurd and to be honest it freaked me out a little.
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