Intellectualbrat Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 This started as an online relationship...we took it further,,i moved to his town..it was going great..well I screwed it up...I said some hurtfull things to him and he can't get over it, so when i said ok well im leaving back to my hometown, he said NO,,,he said hopefully we can work it out...He says im spoiled...well now i live right next door to him and he still comes over every day or calls so i can go over for dinner...OH and get this..on my bday wich was May 21st he comes and gives me a hug and gives me a promise ring he had bought a while back for me...I was like HUH???? I took it but then 2 days later i gave it back because i thought that it was not right that he give me the promise ring now that we are broken up...he would not take it.,he got real upset and yelled at me and asked why i accepted it if i did not want it...Ofcourse i wanted it..hell i love this man to pieces but i just did not feel like he loved me and that it was not the right time...afterwards he said he was reaching out...he said that he cares very much for me...I dunno what to think anymore...my family is all on his side..they think im the obe that screwed it up...Now i want my ring back, just because i know it did mean something to him....but he is stubburn as all hell...so here i wait..im very impatient and i want to be with him already and be like it used to....Do you think there will be a secound chance for us? Ask me whatever u need to know and i will answer.
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Well if you do get back it definitely won't be the same. Pain has already been set in and the memories won't automatically go away if you get back together. It seems he is desperate and that's why he's doing all these questionable things. It seems it is possible for a second chance but it will have a rocky restart. Hope this helps.
LovieDove24 Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 He gave you a promise ring and you were not sure of his feelings for you? Isn't that like the next closest thing to an engagement ring? I don't get how you could miss that signal... Anyways, no need to blame you here. Obviously you're hurting now too. I can see a huge lack in communication going on. Does he know you love him to pieces? Or are you holding that back for fear of getting hurt again?
Author Intellectualbrat Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 Well yeah he does know that I love him very much...and I guess i miss took the love for maybe something else...I should of just taken the ring and leave it at that and be happy that he was reaching out..but stupid me is always thinking the worst....im just so confused. What we had was just so beautiful..it was out of a Fairy Tale Book. I really appreciate you guys trying to shed some light on my confussion.
Author Intellectualbrat Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 Yes I agree with you as far as rocky start and I believe that is where we are at right now..It is so hard for me.
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Yes it is hard but don't worry things always find a way of working themselves out for the best.
Author Intellectualbrat Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 I hope so because sometimes I feel like giving up and just run....
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Don't worry things work out. For some weird reason it's like that. I know you feel like running but give it a little time and the decision to move on or hold on will come. I know you say you are impatient but you can't rush Love or time.
Author Intellectualbrat Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 Funny how you sound like him talking...lol thank you so much for your words.
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