sacg Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 Guys and gals, don’t know if this helps, I doubt it, if your early on as nothing really does. Just my thoughts tho. J But, hey, believe it or not there comes a time, a time when the pain starts to recede, a time when the thoughts and memories dissipate, a time when you awaken and start to feel good again. (..and NC really will only allow this time to arrive for you……if you cant really let go). But most important of all, we all get to this point…all of us. I’ve done it all, everything, all of it on here, except take the advice. I begged, pleaded, forgave betrayal, remained supportive, stalked to a point L, cried, pleaded, wanted “friendship”, took the damn woman out on wonderful evenings..(don’t ask!)…would do anything to not lose her completely…..when I already, actually had, ….. and I looked at prat in recollection. I was definitely not what attracted her to me in the first place, LOL, and she said this!!! “Hindsight’s a wonderful thing.” Then came that point….that point of just saying, “im killing myself, I’m more worried about someone and something I have absolutely no control over, im depressed and its because of how im dealing with this, ive lost all self esteem and confidence, …I am not the man/woman I was, the fun guy/girl, the winner,….people used to be attracted to me????? I was fun to be with?????? We’re all winners, were all attractive to people, were just not us, we’ve been very lost! And you…….wait for it……you let go. You finally give in, you reach your point. Now I know you don’t want to hear this, and some of you know this, and others will be starting to feel this. But remember, no matter how terrible, lost, betrayed, hurt, jealous, mad, low, crappy, what is the point in living……..it will stop when you reach your point…and we all do, I didn’t think so a few months ago, but we all do. It does stop, the terrible, terrible pain does stop, it’s when your ready…..sort yourself, the world and love with just fit right back in. This isn’t a blow against the second chancers and the hopefuls, boy, maybe now ive finally letting go, I may get a second chance, ….don’t think ill be in a place where I’ll need to accept though. It’s just an observation about what we all do and where most end up, inspired by a thread by wmast. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t191399/ Good luck, and awaken your real self, and live again. x
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