snoopy girl Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 its been a year now that my husband quite his job, for me, NOT, he had an X on his back and where he worked and would have lost it anyways. he worked for a beer co. and i was tired of all the lies he told about his where abouts in his job, women, clubs, women co-worker, and much more. one girl he is found of a co-worker and i'm not sure if they had an affair. this was the main reason i was going to leave him last year. 8 years of working close with her and couldn't take it anymore... after he quite he told me he had nothing to hide, i could check his mail anything to make me feel better, an open book to anything. he would not call or talk to her again. then the calls started, but she would only talk to him through other co-workers phone and e-mail would only be by cc to a different person he knew with a message to him. she would never call or e-mail from her own cell or computer. but its almost every month that she contacts him, and he knows i check the all calls, started checking his e-mail and found message to him from other girls at work. the deleted ones, then tell me he got to e-mail from the girls from work but leaves out the message from her, till i show it to him and then said, i didnt read that. i didn't even reply. so i guess i asking is what do you think if you had read some of my last threads on here you would know much more, i told him to e-mail her to tell her to stop but no luck so i guess i am done.
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Good for you! You don't need to take any of that junk from anyone. Kudos!
Author snoopy girl Posted June 12, 2009 Author Posted June 12, 2009 niceguy4ever, thanks for your support, its been a week now and my husband is trying to make up with me and its hard, but i just don't want to hear what he has to say, he has always got me back by crying, not this time, i just hope that i am stronge enough to let it end. he tell me over and over that he did nothing wrong. everytime he does something wrong, all the crap from our past will come hit me like a ton of bricks, i can't let the pass go and the reasons why is that they have not be resolved. he doesn't want to talk about it. so for now i cant take anymore. i am in a situation now that i can't leave home and he will not leave, i work in my house. i live on family land. i am screwed.
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