betrayed1 Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I have been with my Fiance for 4 years. I feel he takes our relationship for grated. I am more of a maid service than lover to him. He NEVER helps to clean the house and just makes messes all over the place. We both work 9-5 and I am expected to do everything to keep up the house. I just get really tired of it all. I asked him to help me take some laundry to the bedroom yesterday and he wanted to bargain for it! the attitude I will do this if you do that. I replied that I just needed some time to relax (it was 11pm already) he responded by calling me a "Bitch". How can I get him to appreciate me and help with the household chores? He wants to get married soon.....but he is such a womenizer!
bean1 Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 Hon, Read this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t187967/ And read it again. He is having sex with women over the internet. It is quite obvious. You don't need to go further than that to know that this man does not love or respect you. Get tested for STDs. As to this issue, he is calling you a bitch for not wanting to do housework at 11pm. WTF is that. WHAT ON THIS PLANET will convince you that this man has no respect for you? If these things won't, I don't know what will. Seek therapy.
angie2443 Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I just read your other thread. Dump this looser! He treats you very poorly and is not worth your time.
z1850 Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 Make a clean start, and stay abstinent before marriage this time.
Jennifer26 Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I just read the other thread. I would be my life savings he is out sleeping with random women off of CL. Honey, run like hell! This WILL NOT get better, and you don't deserve to be treated this way. I wouldn't even say give an ultimatum, or try counseling, seriously just RUN!! I'm sorry that you're afraid of being alone, I know what it feels like. I know he is going to lie to you until he is blue in the face, and deny deny deny! You don't want to believe these things, so you're going to downplay things, and begin to believe him. But in the back of your mind, you know this guy does not respect or love you.
Jersey Shortie Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I agree with the others. He is not a good man. But you are sticking around. So obviously their is some pay off you are getting by taking his abuse. Please ask yourself some serious questions about what your life is currently like, what your life might be life by sticking with him and how you want your life to be.
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