Dexter Morgan Posted June 17, 2009 Posted June 17, 2009 Every story is different. Please I do not mean to belittle what happened to you, I'm sorry. Simple questions are: 1. Was your spouse a serial cheater not at the beginning when I could have chosen to cancel the wedding. but since she learned that she could get away with it by keeping her mouth shut, she did the little, "what he doesn't know won't hurt him" thing later on during the course of our marriage. Apparantly she, like many here, think they can keep quiet and vow not to cheat again and think, "I made a mistake, and will not repeat the mistake". 2. Was it 1 time or a long-term affair 1 was, the couple others were not. 3. Was there a long-term EA that removed her from you and the family towards the end, yes 4. Did you have a family yes, 2 sons. which brings up a funny thing, I told her that when our sons grow up, that if they ever are cheated on, that she will have nothing to say about it. She can just stay out of it and let me handle it. 5. Was there sexual problems in your marriage prior to the affair no, sex was great. the only problems were when sex became less frequent, but not by my doing. but one sexual problem is, she isn't satisfied with having sex with the same person for the rest of her life. she needed a new face to f##k now and then. sucks to be her new man. but he'll keep her in line, just like he did with his x-W, if you know what I mean.
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