sandy12345678993 Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I found this thread from 4 years ago, and thought it was so beautiful and hopeful and uplifting when relationship drama gets the best of you. I didn't write it, and I don't know who this Prevch is. He hasn't logged in since September 2004. But it is a very nice message that bears repeating. Enjoy! "There is always hope! Hello everyone. The reason you are here is because someone you love is either trying to get back with you or you are wanting to get back with them. I am going through this same experience and I want you all to know that I truly care and am concerned for every single one of you. That, in fact, is the reason I am writing this. THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE! The majority of you had long, loving, deeply caring relationships myself included. And many times these relationships ended for no good reason. Thankfully one guarantee in life is "human doubt" your exes will think of you I promise! If you were a good partner and loved them more than anything I guarantee that they will think of you! Humans have doubts though. In fact, half the time people break up with you for the same reason they get back with you. It's because they love you but have and or had doubts. I can also tell you that no contact in most cases is the way to go. Your ex needs to see how life is living without you that is the only way that they can see just how much you meant to them. So many of you are good loving people and it kills me to see so many people hurt in one spot. Just know that the sun will shine another day and if your ex is smart they will comeback. If not, then you were too good for them I GUARANTEE it!!!!!! It is really hard to find true love, in fact, it's almost impossible. And if you had it, I guarantee your ex will miss it, even if they are with someone else right now! Also if you are religious find comfort in your religion. I personally am Christian and try to converse with God as much as possible and I ask him to fix things. It takes time but honestly it helps. Keep your chin up and know that life will get better. Thank you everyone for all of your support and I honestly hope that things work out for all of you. And trust me eventually they will. MUCH LOVE!!! ~Prevch :)"
Exit Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 There is nothing wrong with hope as long as you don't totally de-rail your life waiting for someone to come back. There is a big difference. At first I was "hoping" so much that I thought about it every second, couldn't sleep, cried every day, etc. Thankfully my brain finally said "enough" and I am no longer suffering that badly every day. It's still the first thing on my mind when I wake up but the rest of the day I am okay. And it is my choice whether or not to have hope or just to completely move on, and for the time being I can still hope, without having it hold me back. Of course there is always hope. Your ego is bruised after a breakup and it's so easy to picture some attractive person they're going to meet, or how much fun they're having without you, but that isn't always the case.
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