sean22 Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 ive been NC with my ex for over a month now. shes going away tomorrow for like 7 months or so and i was just thinking of sending her a goodbye text. I feel like its the right thing to do. i do miss her. I just feel like i should be saying goodbye as if it was anybody else i knew was going away for 7 months maybe something along the lines of bye X sorry if i woke you, just wanted to wish you the best on your adventures. Hope you have an awesome time. Watch out for them bears aye.. don't get eaten Have Fun. Good Luck. (going to america, thats where the bears came from lol) yes? no?
Ronni_W Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 My vote is 'yes' -- with suggestions for a couple of minor changes: Don't start it with "bye", and don't send it at a time that she may be sleeping. In any case, don't apologize for waking her. Unnecessary or over-apologies just come off as lacking confidence -- don't send her off with that image of you in her head! Oh...and maybe delete that bit about "getting eaten" -- watch out for 'em bears is quite cute enough If it feels right in your heart, then send her a text phrased exactly as you want to phrase it. That is, basically just do everything that your own heart is saying for you to do.
Author sean22 Posted June 9, 2009 Author Posted June 9, 2009 ok, i just thought she would be sleeping because i might send it tomorrow morning or tonight and i dont know what time her plane leaves but yea. i havnt put much thought into it yet. as for the eaten part, i know what shes like she wouldnt take it too seriously but ill take it out anyways now that you pointed it out. thanks
NopeNah Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 Unless you broke it off with her..my vote is NO! Why do that to yourself? Let her go! She's going with or without your text...dont give her the ego stroke before she leaves! Stay strong!
Author sean22 Posted June 10, 2009 Author Posted June 10, 2009 maybe i shouldnt have sent it.. she could have said by to me instead.. ohwell i have 7 months NC now anyway. At least i wont feel bad now not saying goodbye if her plane crashes
LukeC Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 if her plane crashes!! ohh myyy i loled! :] Stay strong :] Luke
NopeNah Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 maybe i shouldnt have sent it.. she could have said by to me instead.. ohwell i have 7 months NC now anyway. At least i wont feel bad now not saying goodbye if her plane crashes Ehh..don't worry about it who cares? Im sure she got a boost outta of it..but let it go! Not a thing!
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