someg Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 So I run into an ex pure coincidence after NC for many months. She seemed to have feelings for me from her reaction from seeing me. We txt a little bit. I asked if she wants to meet. She says it's not a good idea basically for her or me to meet up. She later says she has no feelings for me and does not want to meet up at all and there's no point to. I did tell her that after seeing her I still had some feelings for her and want to meet to see if there's anything left. She says there's more fish in the see blah blah blah. What's great about it though is she basically totally rejected me and I feel 99% - 100% fine. So i'm happy about that. My question is, why is she being like that? She almost seemed annoyed and hostile at one point. After she said she has no feelings for me at all, now I genuinely wonder how she's been doing since I haven't seen her for so long. I genuinely wonder how she has been as a friend. But she doesn't want to meet to catch up. So why does a girl act like this? Is she insecure? She doesn't want old feelings to come back? Or she just thinks I'm too needy to handle meeting (granted I probably use to be like that)?
BCCA Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I'm a guy, but I have a pretty good feeling here. Seems like she wanted to make it perfectly clear to you that she is not interested in dating you again. She just nipped any idea that she wanted to be with you again in the bud. She was kind of mean, because honestly, you have to be in that frame of mind to be so definite. She probably is dating/wants to date someone else, and doesnt want you to get any ideas. If you dumped her, shes probably just making sure you never get close enough to hurt her.
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