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To shy guys: How do you go about dating?


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I consider myself a shy guy at times. It's weird though, I feel more like myself and in the zone when I'm with a girl that I really fancy. I'd say I'm more nervous in a meeting with my boss vs. getting to know a beautiful girl. Right off the bat I'm usually pretty quiet, but if I'm really interested in a girl or finally get comfortable with any given person, I settle down and am perfectly fine.

 

When it comes to "making the first move", I don't know how to answer it. What constitutes the first move? Is it inviting her over? Is it initiating a fake sword fight with her with random house objects? Is it her playfully hitting me/touching my arm when I give her a hard time? It all sort of adds to that tension, so to speak.

 

If by first move you mean the first kiss, then in my experience it has been either mutual, or blatantly obvious that she wants it, in which case I LOVE the rush of taking the lead and going in for it. :)

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I'm very shy. I went about it the way I probably shouldn't have. I lost my virginity with a hooker in Amsterdam to get my fear of women rid off. And it didn't help. The hooker was extremely mean with me because I was taking too long...if you know what i mean. I still don't talk with women who are not related to me. And the women-like my brother's gf-is very mean with me. And he always takes her side. So I continue in my little shell. I rarely go out and even rarely I talk with a female.

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