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Men: How much of why you fall in love with a woman is looks?


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No, she's not.

 

Of all people JS, you should know that alot of make-up and photoshop can make anyone look good. ;) So don't fall for the media hype and the stereotypes, like all the men already do. Someone has to stay sane, after all. :cool:

Anyone with their hair up in such an unattractive up-do, with those pilot glasses, is going to look terrible. Also, I noticed that her nose was pre-nose job, since it still has the bump.

 

Everyone takes bad pictures. If you've seen more candid shots of her lately, with little makeup on, she still looks hot.

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Since people find her universally attractive, she can almost get away with murder. She has been saying the most ignorant comments yet men will still find her attractive and support her movies and career.

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Photoshop can make them look bad too. This is a case in point, it's clear someone has done a pretty poor job of manipulating the image to make her look as bad as possible. For starters, the right side images are terribly oversharpened (unsharp masking) to try and bring any tiny flaws out.

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if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife...

 

I love that song!! My grandpa used to sing it to me when I was a kid and tell me, "it's a good thing you're ugly." :o

 

And seriously, MeaganRaye, quit being such a shallow hater! The reason men find you so horribly unattractive is because of your shi*ty, negative, shallow outlook on everything in life. NOT your average looks.

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She has been saying the most ignorant comments yet men will still find her attractive and support her movies and career.

 

Are these men dating her?

 

No. They simply find her PHYSICALLY attractive.

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No one can love you until you love yourself. . .

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Since people find her universally attractive, she can almost get away with murder. She has been saying the most ignorant comments yet men will still find her attractive and support her movies and career.
Firstly, who in their right minds would take her comments seriously? Next, wanting to do someone, doesn't mean you respect or value them as people.

 

That's all looks does for you. Gets you looked at and will get you that first date. Beyond that, it's up to you to decide if who you're with, values you for all the right reasons. If it's solely or primarily looks, you walk.

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I love that song!! My grandpa used to sing it to me when I was a kid and tell me, "it's a good thing you're ugly." :o

 

That's........horrible! I'm sorry dear!

 

I sing the song a little differently tho:

 

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never be a pretty boy's wife...;)

 

I have noticed in long term adult relationships that my physical appearance got their attention on my personality. Then they fall in love enough to where I'm sick in bed or just plain looking my worst, only to be told I'm beautiful/adorable.

A person in love sees no "flaws".

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This topic caught my attention so I asked my boyfriend what he thought, and he said that for him it's 65% confidence and the way a woman carries herself and only 35% actual looks.

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No, she's not.

 

Of all people JS, you should know that alot of make-up and photoshop can make anyone look good. So don't fall for the media hype and the stereotypes, like all the men already do. Someone has to stay sane, after all.

 

She still looks attractive in the second photo. She is cearly less done up. But with normal make up, and a nice outfit, she is still a stunning girl. However, like I said, she is not a nice person. She has outwardly said men were stupid yet men still love her.

 

I try very hard not to fall for media hype. Unfortunetly, it's very difficult when the exact men are you dating do buy into the hype and find just your average girls lacking. Which obviously alot of men today do.

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I went to school with this girl who just broke up with me. I didn't find her that attractive during school, but to me shes the most gorgeous girl in the world right now.. too bad i lost her :( I'm sure it will change once i lose all my feelings for her.

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I think Megan Fox's looks are somewhat overrated in that she has an extreme cheapness and slight drag queen look that detracts from her overall beauty. This isn't entirely the way she does her makeup -- it also has to do with the structure of her face and the tacky plastic surgery enhancements (overly inflated lips). That said, she is beautiful for a normal person. She looks as attractive to me in the candids as she always does. You just can't see her face because of the glasses.

 

Personally I find these models to be much more beautiful:

http://theones2watch.com/models/profiles/women/tina-petelin

http://img505.imageshack.us/img505/4849/74780120qe2.jpg

http://images.fashionmodeldirectory.com/model/000000179722-alana_zimmer-fit.jpg

 

I'm sure a lot of guys would find them less hot than Megan, but I prefer a face that is interesting and sophisticated over something generic.

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Personally I find these models to be much more beautiful:

 

(As usual, all the ones that look like you)

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Gosh, I hope the male response to this question is A LOT, otherwise I'm totally letting myself go. If a woman can be loved just as much in the body of a fat girl with bad skin and hair, then I'm giving up all the grooming and workouts.

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Both genders are inititially attracted to looks but in order for me to give a woman any 2nd though she has to have something more. Also if you ask me Megan Fox is repulsive. I have no udea why certain men find her attractive because she is not. I saw her at the MTV awards acting like she was above everybody else and I was wishing somebody pranked her.

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Gosh, I hope the male response to this question is A LOT, otherwise I'm totally letting myself go. If a woman can be loved just as much in the body of a fat girl with bad skin and hair, then I'm giving up all the grooming and workouts.

 

Oh, it matters to an extent, but the people who I can honestly say love/loved me don't fuss over conditional things. Right when I moved in with my SO, I stopped taking my birth control. I broke out so badly! And it really hit my self esteem at first because I didn't experience bad skin in my teens. Before I could get that issue calmed down, I got really ill with the new location's seasonal flu. Next thing I know I'm covered in a full body rash the dermatologist said is sometimes triggered by illness. I had to rub myself down daily with stinky, mentholated salve that made it impossible to clear my skin up.

It took 6 months! 6 months of me looking like I had leprosy or something!

He would help me put the salve on and get my PJs on without rubbing it off each night. I would wretch on over it but he'd just remind me it would get better eventually.

Or when he had to get back surgery and put on 35lbs from being inactive while healing. He hated on himself because he was a chubby child and feared being so as an adult. Whatever, I was just glad he wasn't in pain all the time anymore. He lost the weight, but I'm full aware his ability to be a thin person will always be a force of will on his part. I'm not going to run off if he slacks. I'll only care if it gets bad enough to stress his spine or become a health issue.

You can love someone for who they are, and you can also grow to accept who they can become. It is a deepening of feeling to the point of real sincerity. It is when love becomes real.

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Both genders are inititially attracted to looks but in order for me to give a woman any 2nd though she has to have something more. Also if you ask me Megan Fox is repulsive. I have no udea why certain men find her attractive because she is not. I saw her at the MTV awards acting like she was above everybody else and I was wishing somebody pranked her.

 

Woggle, are you a male or female? I think men and women have different opinions as to whether a female is good looking. So if you're a female, then it's difficult to understand why men find Megan Fox good looking.

 

Getting second looks is good but I'm not sure how much they help. I get second looks but I haven't got an SO yet since my ex.

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Woggle, are you a male or female? I think men and women have different opinions as to whether a female is good looking. So if you're a female, then it's difficult to understand why men find Megan Fox good looking.

 

Getting second looks is good but I'm not sure how much they help. I get second looks but I haven't got an SO yet since my ex.

 

I am 100% man and Megan Fox is repulsive to me. She does nothing for me at all.

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Both genders are inititially attracted to looks but in order for me to give a woman any 2nd though she has to have something more. Also if you ask me Megan Fox is repulsive. I have no udea why certain men find her attractive because she is not. I saw her at the MTV awards acting like she was above everybody else and I was wishing somebody pranked her.

 

Woggle, are you a male or female? Men and women have different opinions as to whether someone is good looking. So if you're a female, then you may not understand why men think Megan Fox is good looking.

 

Getting second looks is good but I'm not sure how much it helps. I get some second looks but haven't had an SO yet since my ex.

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My point was that without all the make-up and everything, she looks just as average as the rest of us.

 

Or, in other words, if I had a good make-up-artist and a hairstylist, I'd look just as good. :cool:

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I am 100% man and Megan Fox is repulsive to me. She does nothing for me at all.

 

 

 

Didn't know I double posted. :eek:

 

But I'm glad there are guys like you, who don't think all good-looking girls are good-looking. :p

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This thread has made me realize that my personality must suck.

 

Great :(

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Personality don't matter. All that matters is that you have nice sexy legs like in that picture. Then men will always want to share a baby with you.

 

If you want a kind loving man like me that will see you as more than just a few holes in the bed you need to have a personality too.

 

Unfortunately most men are good at trickign women, and women would rather go with the man who only wants sex over a man with different intentions to love her and stuff.

 

So you bring it on yourself.

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This thread has made me realize that my personality must suck.

 

Great :(

 

Yeah, but if you're hot, it's irrelevant. :)

 

Um, who's Megan Fox?

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(As usual, all the ones that look like you)

 

Lol. They look nothing like me.

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