4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 How is man feel when he find out about the wife A? husband don't know about W affair, what do he do if he find out?
TaraMaiden Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Well, that all depends on whether both feel the marriage can be saved. If the husband doesn't feel it can, then divorce is the most likely option. But really, it's worth discussing and waiting for the initial shock to wear off. If the wife declares she also wishes to leave the marriage, counselling may help, but if a person's mind is made up (husband OR wife) then it is very difficult.
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 someone that I know is cheating on the husband for 10 years.
2sure Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 For a lot of people who cheat - an affair is a selfish act, an ego boost. They have a need to be "all that" to someone. When a cheater finds out his/her wife is cheating...that need can go into overdrive. They will be the ones to fight hardest to get their spouse back to thinking they are wonderful. Even if they arent happy with the marriage - they may do everything to not be the one rejected.
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 i feel sorry for the husband that don't know about wife A. She is very smart woman, she cheated for more than 10 years. And the husband didn't find out.
Owl Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Why does she feel justified in cheating on him? Have you considered telling her husband that she is cheating?
Chrome Barracuda Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 I know this much if he's tired of her, already, the affair might just kick her out the house. Some men dont put up with garbage at all. reguardless married or not.
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 Why does she feel justified in cheating on him? Have you considered telling her husband that she is cheating? I think this woman doesn't has guilty toward her husband. She claimed that she isn't happy at home with her husband. I don't know her husband well. Maybe she doesn't think cheating is wrong.
Owl Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 So are you going to tell her husband? That's the only way that he'll learn the truth. What he does when he knows the truth is something that no one can know until it happens.
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 So are you going to tell her husband? That's the only way that he'll learn the truth. What he does when he knows the truth is something that no one can know until it happens. her A partner is someone that i know. I affraid the husband can't handle it if he find out about the A.
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 define "not handle it"? I just don't want the guy hate me since he told me about his A.
Owl Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 I just don't want the guy hate me since he told me about his A. So are you more concerned about how this guy feels about you than you are about the H's awareness of the affair? Which do you feel is more important?
Lizzie60 Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 How is man feel when he find out about the wife A? husband don't know about W affair, what do he do if he find out? It depends on numerous factors, children... etc.. It is more common for men to leave after D-Day than a woman... Women are more forgiving I think.. men are 'prouder'...
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 There no children involved, she doesn't have children. But the husband love her and trust her. She used that trust and continuted on.
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 So are you more concerned about how this guy feels about you than you are about the H's awareness of the affair? Which do you feel is more important? He try to broke up with her last times and many times, but she keep coming back to him as she alway in the driver seat. Right now they just talk on the phone but very little see each other.
Owl Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 That wasn't an answer to my question. Which do you feel is more important...how this man feels about you if you tell her H about the affair, or is it more important that her husband knows the truth about the affair and his wife's cheating?
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 That wasn't an answer to my question. Which do you feel is more important...how this man feels about you if you tell her H about the affair, or is it more important that her husband knows the truth about the affair and his wife's cheating? I'm affraid that the husband will hurt the wife and this man.
Owl Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 There is no way to know for sure if he will react violently or not. It's always a possible risk. And, in my opinion...a risk his wife knowingly and intentionally took when she decided to cheat on him. You aren't the one who put her and this other man at risk...she did, by cheating on her husband.
Dexter Morgan Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 How is man feel when he find out about the wife A? husband don't know about W affair, what do he do if he find out? I divorced my cheating xW. so you can take that for what you want out of it.
Dexter Morgan Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 someone that I know is cheating on the husband for 10 years. then the H would definitely be a fool if he doesn't kick her worthless ass out of the house if he ever finds out.
Dexter Morgan Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 It depends on numerous factors, children... etc.. It is more common for men to leave after D-Day than a woman... Women are more forgiving I think.. men are 'prouder'... doesn't have a thing to do with pride. it has to do with not wanting to be married to a cheater.
Author 4everloveu Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 then the H would definitely be a fool if he doesn't kick her worthless ass out of the house if he ever finds out. I would think he do something if he ever find out. But if he didn't find out for the past 10 years. I don't think he ever find out. She must be good about hiding and sneaking out.
cheatingheart Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 I would think he do something if he ever find out. But if he didn't find out for the past 10 years. I don't think he ever find out. She must be good about hiding and sneaking out. ... or maybe there's no affair at all because your friend is lying? Or the husband's fine with it? Or he's having one of his own?
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