hopefulInFuture Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 It's been at least 10 days since I left him behind because I was sick of his lies. After initial few messages he stopped contacting me and this is what I wanted. He lied to me so many times it was no point in pretending as if we could have even a great friendship. Even friends don't lie. We work together and he wrote me several professional emails to which I responded professionally. Today was the first day when we had to participate in the same meeting. So, the first time I saw him after so many days. He came over to my desk to say hello with a smile all over his face... He talked with me as if he never did me any damage... Well, I don't want to be with him and I am glad that I am getting away in such a situation. It would have been much worse down the line if we were married or had kids. He would never stop lying I think and I would always wonder. But this is what hurts me: the only thing I wanted from him as a closure was a sorry!!! a single phrase: I am sorry! Instead of telling me that he was at least sorry, in his last message he accused me of overreacting!!! He was trying to hide the truth once more... this is why I even stopped responding. What's the point in talking about the hurt his lies are causing if he can't even recognize that he lied and he did the wrong to me? How can he come over to my desk with a happy face and act as if nothing happened? He changed his attitude towards me after he saw that I was not as happy to see him and after I responded in a grouchy way...
crackerjax9 Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 keep doing what your doing... it takes awhile for some people to apologize for things...hell realize what hes done and hopefully be really sorry.i wish i did that with my ex..i would bug him until he apologized to me for some things but he never actually meant them...if he did i wouldnt be where i was today. so again, wait it out, keep acting strong & ull prob get your apology. and itll be sincere
Author hopefulInFuture Posted June 9, 2009 Author Posted June 9, 2009 Thank you, you're just such a lovely person with such a great response. you know what, today I have been thinking. His sorry wouldn't help anything any more, so does it really matter? it doesn't... I guess what really hurts me is not his sorry but that he would lie to me so much and no sorry can help that. Only time will help me to get over with this hurt and move on. Thanks again
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