crackerjax9 Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 only a couple of days of no contact ..he texted me at 12 asking how work went yesterday i ignored him...i woke up just feeling really angry at him for this whole situation and not being able to work things out by today..i dont think i can look back at our relationship after today..maybe its a good thing idk...always wanted to have a one year anniversary with someone..this sucks...
Cora Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I feel your pain I really do. I have always wanted to celebrate a one year anniversary with someone special but never made it to one. The closest I got was with my ex which in a few short days will mark or would of marked our one year. Oh well just wasn't mean to be I guess but yeah it def sucks! It's something I was looking forward to and figured I was actually going to make it this time. Don't you worry. You will not only get to celebrate your one year anniversary with some special guy who deserves you but many more years on top of that! Hang in there!
Author crackerjax9 Posted June 9, 2009 Author Posted June 9, 2009 thank youu... today just made me realize alot of things -- i deserve to be treated better and shouldnt be walking on eggshells around someone..i was probably more busy being upset and worrying about him than i was happy..idk what made me fall for this guy..but hes not the same ne more .. i should be able to do what i want and be myself around the guy that i love. i love him to death but he really screwed this one up and im so over all the fighting & bull hit that comes along with him.
jlr Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 yeah, those types of landmarks are rough. it would have been five years for me and my ex at the end of February. i have a feeling that day will always be rough on me for a while. five years seems like an eternity. and i know what you mean about how your ex isn't the same any more. mine isn't either. i sometimes wonder if someone hijacked her body - she looks the same, but the person inside seems to be gone. or, perhaps hiding. hang in there. you'll get to a one year anniversary with someone someday.
nopainnogain Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I think that this will amaze me till the end of time. How we could know someone so well for so long and then bam. They are gone forever. I guess as the old saying goes ,it is what it is . But sometimes what it is, is'nt always is'nt .
nopainnogain Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I feel your pain I really do. I have always wanted to celebrate a one year anniversary with someone special but never made it to one. The closest I got was with my ex which in a few short days will mark or would of marked our one year. Oh well just wasn't mean to be You are not missing out too much lol.
hopefulInFuture Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 you are such a sweet person. You deserve better. Don't let this make you sad for long. You will eventually find a person who treats you the way you deserve to be treated. Think about it this way: it's his loss! not yours....
Ingenue Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 crackerjax, March earlier this year would have been 6 years for me. In about 2 weeks, it will mark 1 year since my ex dumped me. But rest assured that it really does get better with time. When we are fully healed and emotionally ready to move on, we do. We all deserve to find mates/lovers/partners who are more compatible with our needs and desires. I like to think of a t-shirt I saw in a window display: it is better to have loved and lost than to spend 30 years with a psycho.
nopainnogain Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 I like to think of a t-shirt I saw in a window display: it is better to have loved and lost than to spend 30 years with a psycho. that is seriously a great tshirt!
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