Janicee Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 I have had a LDR boyfriend who has been in relationship for 2 years. I am from Taiwan. We meet in real about once in a quarter.Everytime I travel to meet him in the country border in china. But I find this relationship too dim when he keeps subtly reflecting the need for financial assistance when we meet. He presents his problem of finance in business each time when we meet. I wonder if he is loving me in real. Should I continue with him?
confusedcookie Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 no, i don't think so... if anything, even if he has money troubles, he should never always bring it up... you can do better! funny, my ex is taiwanese too, but i'm canadian, your english is quite good, actually...
Author Janicee Posted June 11, 2009 Author Posted June 11, 2009 Thank you all in giving me a concrete answer. I do think relationship should be reciprocal and balanced. Confused cookie I thank you too. Hope you are no confusion again and find true love again. But it is a dark moment for me, give sometime for myself is necessary
violaaa Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Indeed you have no fault. And I see you have some insight already. Love cant be established in money and he should visit you too if he really care. Understand more of his background in case necessary. But stop on giving money absolutely. See what is his response?
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