Mikka Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 I want your guys's opinion here! Time spent together. What would you say is typical for a couple who's been dating about a month now? I've been seeing my boyfriend like once a week. We've got weird schedules, but we also live RIDICULOUSLY close to each other (a 10 minute walk). I'm starting to feel like we're spending less... and less time together. The attention I get from him is much less than the first week I started dating him. I mean, I'm not losing any sleep over it, but occasionally in the back of my head I keep thinking, "he doesn't like me anymore!" but then he asks to hang out at some point of the end of the week, and it's fine. It would be cool to hear other people's thoughts on this if they've felt like this. What's typical for a relationship starting out? How often should I try to see him? edit: I also have to add. My phone is currently disabled, so I've been using instant messaging (MSN) to talk to him. It's not horrible, because that's what we communicated on when we were just friends. I do miss being able to text him throughout the day though. I just feel like I have to make greater effort to trying to be close to him. And this, seeing him once every week, or week and a half or so doesn't seem to be cutting it. Any ideas?
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 12, 2009 Posted June 12, 2009 Well maybe you can ask him if YOU want to come over to be with him. Take some initiative. Make those days you are with him very memorable so you can lose yourself in daydreaming about them in the day like a romantic walk through the park, a trip to the carnival, to the beach etc. Well during the first month it's usually pretty high. Especially when you're young and when you have superb connection. So if you usually get in contact like as soon as you get home you get on MSN? Well I'd say get text back because it really helps. Anyways one or two times a week is usually cool but if you can go more go for it. Hope this helps.
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