Lucky_One Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 And OMG I read this as being he was 6 MONTHS older than you. Freaking perv. Good thing you aren't my daughter, or your butt would have an arrested XBF.
Lucky_One Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 LOL, let's all get on board for the man getting a BJ on his natural, unwashed, unscented d*ck. I kill myself I'm going to insist that my man wax from balls to butt, and then use lots of strawberry flavored lotion to cover up the fact that OMG he actually pees out of the end of his penis! Seriously, cleanliness IS important, but not the point where we are petrified of our own natural smells and refuse to let someone down there or can't relax and enjoy our own pleasure.
carhill Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 In time our OP will come to this healthy understanding. That's why I'm asking out loud where mom is....
Ruby Slippers Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Yep, douching totally disrupts the natural balance of healthy bacteria in the vagina, and can actually cause infections. Terrible idea. If you practice basic hygiene and have a good diet, you're fine. In my experience, men who turn their noses up at clean, healthy vagina are 100% not worth a woman's time. I also think this applies to women who are prissy and squeamish about semen and a man's natural taste and secretions. You will find that some men are absolutely crazy about your natural taste and smell -- these men are the keepers.
OverThinker Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Uhm...was that supposed to make her feel better? Yes it was pointed at making her feel better, maybe could have worded it differantly but hey it was late. I simply meant that i am sure there is nothing strange, ugly, wierd, or bad about hers.
bean1 Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Hon, there's a reason he dates 17 year old girls instead of 23 year old women, they would be less likely to put up with his crap because they know that nearly all men love every part of a woman.
Jersey Shortie Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Everytime my eyes scan over this thread I read it as " I am scared of my vagina" . Sorry OP, just had to share. There is something to be said for a man that has gone to college that dates a girl still in high school. Vast life experiences going on there. There will be other men that will love your vagina. Vagina's are beautiful. Even though not all vagin's are created equal. All vagina's should be loved equally.
shadowplay Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 No it's not!!!! BS, no man if he's gonna go downtown wants hairballs in his throat, trim or shaven, please keep it nice and neat. Trust I've seen some bushes that tarzan himself wont swing around. Period. lol. Next yes, I understand that the female vagina has smells and discharges I get that. but I mean you dont want to smell like fishy fry weekend before hand now do you, Trust me I've had bad horror stories. lol. You can clean , doushe, perfume, whatever,, make sure it smells nice. Lastly you dont have to fake it. yes I agree but no man wants to go down on a female and she's in a catatonic state!!!! dont lay there like a lump on a log and expect him to perform. If a dude wants to eat the box he has to be confident, he doesnt need you messing with his skills if he does attempts, see what im pointing to. If your not into it then fine say so. but dont be like do it please and when he gets there your still not satisfied. I know that all women are different there gonna have different arousal points on their body, if he's a bit below above or below the mark direct him to it. sheesh. For all the men who complain about hairy bushes and smelly vaginas on women, it's astounding what poor shape most men keep their nether regions in. I've come into contact with some nasty mangroves and rank-smelling penises in my day. Why is it okay for a man to be unkempt but not a woman? Practice what you preach.
mr.dream merchant Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 It wouldn't go calling him an ass just because he doesn't want to go down on her. I doubt its your vagina OP, its just his preference not to give you oral sex.
Author APbabyy Posted June 9, 2009 Author Posted June 9, 2009 It's all about the pheromones - wash them away, and you have nothing but a sterile, rose-scented (or even worse, gak, blueberry scented!) tube of muscle. Leave those pheromones alone, and you have an exquisite sensory organ that, as Boldjack says, will make someone worship your vagina as the center of the universe! Women on birthcontrol dont produce pheromones...(fact..dont even try to test me =]) ...so looks like I'm **** outta luck on that one haha
Author APbabyy Posted June 9, 2009 Author Posted June 9, 2009 In time our OP will come to this healthy understanding. That's why I'm asking out loud where mom is.... You cannot freak out over age...my parents are 6 years apart as well, it does not matter when love hits, whether it turns out to work or not. So don't judge me or my parents. They never liked him anyway. I appreciate all your comments, it has helped me a lot.
Chrome Barracuda Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 For all the men who complain about hairy bushes and smelly vaginas on women, it's astounding what poor shape most men keep their nether regions in. I've come into contact with some nasty mangroves and rank-smelling penises in my day. Why is it okay for a man to be unkempt but not a woman? Practice what you preach. Dont look at me!!! LOL. I get what your saying though. I make sure I'm clean downstairs.
Lucky_One Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 You cannot freak out over age...my parents are 6 years apart as well, it does not matter when love hits, whether it turns out to work or not. So don't judge me or my parents. They never liked him anyway. I appreciate all your comments, it has helped me a lot. Sure we can freak out over age. A six year difference from 27 to 33 (two adults) is vastly different from 16 to 22 (a child and an adult). Granted, in your BF's case, I can't really call him an adult.
carhill Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 You cannot freak out over age...my parents are 6 years apart as well, it does not matter when love hits, whether it turns out to work or not. So don't judge me or my parents. They never liked him anyway. I appreciate all your comments, it has helped me a lot. Trust me, I'm old enough to be your father and I'd be more than a bit interested in what has been going on. Your mother is who you should be talking to about matters of genital self-image and function. I hope she loves you enough to put aside what she might think of your exBF to do the right thing. It's normal for young adults to hate their parents and for the parents to hate the young adults choices in sexual/romantic partners. You're normal In another 10-15 years you'll understand why myself and a few other posters have taken notice of something besides vaginal smell. IMO, you should work this out on your own, with help from your parents and a counselor. Do not engage the 'help' of other young men to validate the health of your vagina. That's my advice
CandyGirlXO Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I have met guys that HATED going down on women, and I have met guys that have LOVED it. So try not to take it personally. I had one guy that I dated for 8 months go down on me once and hated it. Whereas I have dated guys for years that have done it every time we have sex. So everyone is different and its his issue, not yours.
Ariadne Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 I have met guys that HATED going down on women, and I have met guys that have LOVED it. Also, The guys that are good in bed love it, and the ones that suck are the ones that don't. Not just because of that, but in every aspect.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 9, 2009 Posted June 9, 2009 Also, The guys that are good in bed love it, and the ones that suck are the ones that don't. Not just because of that, but in every aspect. True. The worst lover of my life was not a fan of giving oral, and the best was a champ at it.
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