turntwo21 Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Hey guys, I've been dating a girl for about 4 months now, and a few incidents have built up some serious doubt on my end. I should preface this by saying that prior to my time with this girl, jealousy and questioning a girl really we not issues...but they're fast becoming a problem. In our second week together, I plugged in her phone which was beeping from low battery...her screen fired up, and instead of seeing a nice phone wallpaper, I caught a string of texts from the night before. She was shooting messages back and forth with some NHL player, saying she was going to rub her boobs on his chest. She claimed it was innocent fun...said she was just messing with him, "because hockey players just want to get their dick wet, and that's not the kind of girl I am." Fair enough. About a month ago, she managed to pry me away from my friends to take me out dancing. We get there, and within 2 minutes, she was 2-stepping with a friend, leaving me to hold his beer. I don't like being beta Last week, she tells me shes going golfing and spending the afternoon with another guy "friend." I hadn't heard his name in the 4 months we've been together. Now, last night, she tells me that 2 months ago she spent the night on her girlfriends couch...with a guy friend, who tried to make a move on her. She always plays the "I'm not that kind of girl" card, and says she's totally in love with me. That may very well be true, but I'm finding these situations to be very stressful to me as a man. I need my respect. Should I let her go?
lora22 Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 She was shooting messages back and forth with some NHL player, saying she was going to rub her boobs on his chest. Disrespectful. Inappropriate. We get there, and within 2 minutes, she was 2-stepping with a friend, leaving me to hold his beer. Disrespectful. Inappropriate. Last week, she tells me shes going golfing and spending the afternoon with another guy "friend." I hadn't heard his name in the 4 months we've been together. Questionable, but mostly because of these other things, and why weren't you invited? Now, last night, she tells me that 2 months ago she spent the night on her girlfriends couch...with a guy friend, who tried to make a move on her. Disrepectful. Inappropriate. She always plays the "I'm not that kind of girl" card, and says she's totally in love with me. Actions speak louder than words. Her actions say "I am that kind of girl." Should I let her go? Blow her out of the water and leave her for dead.
D-Lish Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Should you leave her? Geez yes. Her actions hardly prove she's a whore- but it does prove that she has a complete lack of respect for you.
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 She was shooting messages back and forth with some NHL player, saying she was going to rub her boobs on his chest. Disrespectful. Inappropriate. We get there, and within 2 minutes, she was 2-stepping with a friend, leaving me to hold his beer. Disrespectful. Inappropriate. Last week, she tells me shes going golfing and spending the afternoon with another guy "friend." I hadn't heard his name in the 4 months we've been together. Questionable, but mostly because of these other things, and why weren't you invited? Now, last night, she tells me that 2 months ago she spent the night on her girlfriends couch...with a guy friend, who tried to make a move on her. Disrepectful. Inappropriate. She always plays the "I'm not that kind of girl" card, and says she's totally in love with me. Actions speak louder than words. Her actions say "I am that kind of girl." Should I let her go? Blow her out of the water and leave her for dead. I agree with Lora. She doesn't respect you so why waste your time. Let her go
mr.dream merchant Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Come on man, is this post serious? This broad is gonna give you STD's. NEXT the ho.
Bryanp Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 You judge a person by their actions and not by their words and her actions speak volumes. How do you think she would be acting if the roles were reversed? She clearly has no conception of what being in a relationship means. She has very little respect for you whatsoever. If you do not respect yourself then who will? Surely you can do better than this. She is making you look like a total fool for staying with her.
Author turntwo21 Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 Thanks guys. Time to get back in the game.
Pog Form Posted June 10, 2009 Posted June 10, 2009 Haha who was the player? I know a girl whose marriage is in shambles right now because she cheated on her husband with an NHLer.
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