trooper Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 It might be to early to worry but I miss him...2 wks ago we got into an argument while we were in bed, where I was kinda of telling him that I wanted him to pay more attention to ME....hes been stressed w/work, school, and other things, I guess I should have been more understanding, but I to get lonely and just want a little bit of loving and cuddling from (which he was actually trying to do) but I guess I was a little upset and i was being bitchy...we got into an arguement and it got a little physical...he said I didnt understand him and he was misunderstood. he then left the room and slept in downstairs in the living room..he was getting ready to leave on a trip buisnessin 2 days we didnt speak till the day before he left, he said that when he came back he was leaving cuz he will never touch me again, I said nothing but cried becuase of coarse I dont want him to go...the whole time he was gone texed and emailed me and said he was keeping his word cuz he feels like less than a man for what he did...he came back from the trip 3 days ago and hasnt stayed at home, he says he has to deal with his issues...i wonder if he will come back, we have been together for 14yrs, we are in our 30's
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Did you apologize? That's something I would think of doing but it's strange because this one event suddenly made him make a drastic decision. Idk but I hope things look up for you.
Author trooper Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 yes i emailed and told him that i wanted him to come home, and that it was selfish of me not to consider his feelings, but no response on that YET.
Exit Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Sounds like kind of a minor fight to break up a 14 year relationship. I would bet there is something else under the surface here. Maybe it really is just all the stress going on in his life.
boogieboy Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Yeah if hes really stressed, youre not helping. You really have to get a hold of your emotions, but it sounds like the relationship is getting old since you cant take his mind off his stress anymore. It also sounds to me like hes frustrated with you...as if you do this often. If he's not giving you the attention you need, you guys might need a true NC break so you can appreciate each other better, you know?
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