I love him more then anything. but do u think i still have a chance?

[katiem]

ok bear with me, this is a very long comment on my situation, and i hope someone can help me out..

 

My ex and I were together for 2 years. I guess you could say we were one of those lucky couples. We were very much in love. We never argued, never raised our voices at eachother. Occasionally we would disagree on something, but it never turned bad. And everyday, we would tell eachother how much we love eachother. It seemed perfect how I described us. He had his bad days, hes a very sensitive guy and emotional, and he gets depressed sometimes so he becomes withdrawn and doesnt want to talk. I understand how hes like so I leave him be and give him space and usually the next day hes all better. hes very work orientated he has 3 jobs, goes to college and somehow manages to see me.

Two weeks ago, was horrible. He came over and was in his weird mood again and told me he didnt want to be in a relationship for awhile, that he wanted to be on his own, but he will always be here for me and will always love me and i can always call him if i ever needed a cuddleneed a cuddle and I can write to him anytime I want, he just doesnt want to be in a relationship. there isnt anyone else.I didnt understand, and I still dont.

I told him I would wait for him to be ready, he said he appreciated that I would do that to him, but he doesnt think he will. He told me he felt like he was being unfair to me at times,and that I deserve better. How could he just assume im better off without him. Its unfair that he would think that.

We didnt see eachother for about a week and a half, but when we finally did, he acted as if we were never together! We hung out at the mall just before and everything was fine, we were laughing and talking heaps, but I ruined it and tryed to cuddle him and show affection like I usaully do, he fully rejected it and went into his weird and quiet mood. when we got to my house, he decided he would walk home and left the car at mine.I feel like an idiot.

Did I just ruin my chances? I love him more then anything and I know he has flaws but ive been willing to look passed that and all I see is him and how perfect he is. I dont want us to end.. What should I do?

[Cloudberry]

It would help if you knew why he was unhappy in the relationship. Sounds like poor communication between you, for starters. He won't tell you what's wrong, and you aren't successful at finding out.