TMAN82 Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 Right, excuse the rambling, but I've had next to no luck with women for years and now something seems to be going well I've started to panic and am probably over thinking things. I've been on 3 dates with this girl. I think we get on really well and I really like her. She's kind of shy, as am I really, so I've been hesitant to make any moves, although we seem to be able to talk for hours. The day after the 3rd date she texted me (moments before I was about to text her) to say she had a lovely time last night, which prompted a few playful texts just joking about a few things. We haven't arranged a 4th date yet, but I plan to later in the week. After reading the signals completely wrongly in the past on numerous occasions I'm just worried about getting it all wrong again. I know I need to elevate things soon or it'll be too late. Should I take her text as a sign that she wants things to go further? I can feel a mounting pressure to kiss her as all we've done so far is hug. I realise most answers I'll get will be that I need to be a man and go for it, but any advice would be appreciated.
Kamille Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 I realise most answers I'll get will be that I need to be a man and go for it, but any advice would be appreciated. Be a man and go for it . Sorry, it was right there! So hard to resist. Really, I don't know what kind of advice to give you. Yes, the fact that she's initiating contact is a good sign. The fact that you like her and feel things are going well is great! The way I see it, you do want to go for it. You do like this girl. You don't want to be friendzoned... So... Go for it!
Peter_pan Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 Right, excuse the rambling, but I've had next to no luck with women for years and now something seems to be going well I've started to panic and am probably over thinking things. I've been on 3 dates with this girl. I think we get on really well and I really like her. She's kind of shy, as am I really, so I've been hesitant to make any moves, although we seem to be able to talk for hours. The day after the 3rd date she texted me (moments before I was about to text her) to say she had a lovely time last night, which prompted a few playful texts just joking about a few things. We haven't arranged a 4th date yet, but I plan to later in the week. After reading the signals completely wrongly in the past on numerous occasions I'm just worried about getting it all wrong again. I know I need to elevate things soon or it'll be too late. Should I take her text as a sign that she wants things to go further? I can feel a mounting pressure to kiss her as all we've done so far is hug. I realise most answers I'll get will be that I need to be a man and go for it, but any advice would be appreciated. man up and go for it... your a MAN not a mouse
fallendisguise Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 Yes go for it!!! IMO the fact that she text you about having a lovely time says she was thinking about the date, the moments you had together, and that she enjoyed them enough to send you a message saying so. That right there says she is thinking of you, so you have nothing to lose. I say act on it before she starts to overanalyze because she thinks you may not be that into her.
Author TMAN82 Posted June 8, 2009 Author Posted June 8, 2009 Right. After a few texts back and forth today she asked if I wanted to meet up this week and suggested her place. Thanks for the replies everyone. Just need to build up my confidence and go for it.
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