gypsi Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Well i tried no conact only lasted 2 weeks then i contacted her again last night she replied this morning and said she didnt want to start anything by replying to my message or lead me on, she also said she's glad we never met up (we were planning on meeting up while she is in town) . As she is completely over me.....wow so fast just took her 3 months!!! So i replied that i understand and that i am sorry for texting her its just really hard for me to get over her seeing as she did nothing wrong in the relationship she was amazing, i dont have any anger or hate towards only love which makes getting over her extremely difficult. And that she is really angry with me at the horrible things i did when we were together....which helps her to heal faster. That i am also glad we didnt meet up coz i would just be trying to get her back while thats what she wanted least of all. I told her i cant be her friend right now and that i wont be making any further contact with her anymore until im completely over her as its not fair on her, i wished her luck for the future and said goodbye. She still hasent replied. So there goes my dream girl gone forever, i fought this emotional battle for 4 months and it was all in vain the saddest part is i actually truly believed in my heart that we would have goten back 2gether, false hope is a killer. Strange now that reality has sunken in and ive let go completely i feel numb....which scares me i might be the calmness before the storm. Now its time to say goodbye to my fav hang out spot on the net and starting a new chapter in my life, thanks for those of you who gave me advice it really helped me alot Good luck to all you other heartboken people hope you find peace and happiness again. Guess its better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all... C'est la vie
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 I've been in that nearly exact situation as well and I too had clung to a false hope but cheer up. There's someone out there just for you. You may have lost this one but let's make sure you learn and not make the same mistakes again. Cheers!
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