Jagdpanther Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 my ex contacted me this week after we split, for 4 weeks. I was just getting my head round it all, moving on slowly. Now she has stirred up old emotions, and I feel like crap again. She is such a mind game player and is now saying things like 'all her friends dont know why she has contacted me' . She says she is glad she has contacted me. For me , I am not so sure, it is just digging up old wounds. She is very depressed at mo and drinks a hell of a lot. Just feels like she is playing all the old head games with me again. She has an incredible amount of baggage from past and has off loaded onto me, much to my detriment thing is , she knows how much I loved her, and still deep down feel for her i would appreciate any advice, how have you dealt with this kind of situation with ex coming back into your life?
carhill Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 You can only control you. It's up to you whether to accept contact. You know how your ex is. Her basic personality will never change. Could you give us a synopsis of her most recent contact? The 'friends don't know why I've contacted you' part isn't really instructive, rather just a prelude to a mind f*ck. What else?
LostInLimbo Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 my ex contacted me Now she has stirred up old emotions, and I feel like crap again. She is such a mind game player it is just digging up old wounds. She is very depressed at mo and drinks a hell of a lot. Just feels like she is playing all the old head games with me again. She has an incredible amount of baggage from past and has off loaded onto me, /QUOTE] I sort of edit your Post, but just read what I kept in your post , in the quote...DO you want that again? you need to THINK about those things, after all you said it Hope that helped a bit... LiL
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