Regular Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 There is this guy I've had a crush on for a couple weeks now but I really can't tell if he's just being a nice guy or if he's actually interested? He is one of the clerks at the convienence store I frequent... he's worked there for over a year (at least) and has always been nice and attentive. I went into another convienence store over a year ago he was working there and told me he was filling in for someone there and would be working at that store for a few weeks. I remembered thinking "why did he just tell me that?" and forgot about it for awhile. Then last summer I had surgery and he asked me how I was and stuff...but it was in the way where I felt he was genuinely interested in how I was doing. I was impressed but forgot about it... He's "flirted", or what I think to be flirting, for awhile now... but within the last month it has been "obvious". He'll watch me drive into the parking lot, park my car, walk in and watch me the entire time I'm in the store. He knows my name, knows what I go in for and always smiles and asks how I am, what I'm doing and one time said "that is a cool purse"! A few weeks ago, me and a friend went to the store.. She really embarrassed me by trying to get him to go out with us afterwards and asked him for his number. I didn't ask her to do this and was really embarrassed by it..but he gave her the number and I sent him a text telling him to call me sometime. He hasn't called... but he's sent a couple of text messages.. but only after I've sent him "hope you're having a good day" kind of messages (like, twice). The kind of responses I get are "Thanks hope yours is too" and that's it. I keep going in the store like usual and he'll ask me about work or what I'm doing but nothing comes of it.. So... is he just a good salesman or is he interested in me? If he's interested in me, how do i progress this further? I'm really only looking for something casual or a friendship. Also, I'm really shy so anything bold is really difficult.. I'm 31 but not sure how old he is. My friend thinks around the same age (probably a bit older). Any advice out there?
oscakool Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Based on what you have described, I believe that he is not currently interested in you. That can change, however, so continue going to his store, but stop texting him. Wait for him to text you first before you text him.
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