r0xigirll991 Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 so we broke up and he says he doesn't love me anymore. I think he is very immature and doesn't know what he wants. Right now he wants to be apart and i am out of town while he's hanging out with a bunch of girls. Yesterday I texted him early in the day trying to be sweet to him and stuff. He never responds to my texts ever and is always short with me. He makes me feel so bad about myself. So he tells me how "I want my space" "we need time apart" "i dont feel the same", so after being basically shut down, I finally text him saying "Im not going to speak to you bc I love you and I know this is what you want" something along the lines of that, then his response is "Alright". I don't hear from him for hours until the night where he says "hey, Im not gonna not talk to you when your out of town" and we casually talk and it becomes weird and he is rude, then just doesnt respond to my questions, so i say "if you cant even respond to my texts, just dont text me. " he says"fine", NC since. its been a day, my family thinks he texted me only to check up on me. Now im not talking to him again, and i think i am going to give him the silent treatment the entire time im here and when i go him. What do you think will happen, i love him and want him back, what do i do??? so confused about everything, i need some advice. however i did **** up by begging him back and getting mad, but ive obviously stopped that! and accepted what he wants. oh and he told me "i dont really love you", then goes "Id love for you to stay in love with me until i figure things out" FML!!!!!!!!
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 7, 2009 Posted June 7, 2009 Okay it is plainly obvious that this guy is playing with you. He is being a d**k and just seems to want you on the leash with your hope that you two MIGHT come back together. I've been in this situation and trust me it's over. There's nothing you can do now but just move on. I know you still have feeling for the guy but just look at the situation. I bet you family and friends are say "Just move on" or "Let it go" because that's just what you can do. Don't contact him at all because this will bring back feelings. Ignore him. If he texts delete them. He's no good and you deserve someone better and you know that. Someone will come to you soon and will be better than he ever was. Just give yourself time to forget then slowly go back to normality. Occupy your time with extra curricular activities, hobbies etc. Talk to friends and family. There are all sorts of things you can do so go on and forget. Someone else will fill his place, trust me. Hope this helps.
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