mistieyed Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Here is the scenario: met a guy online, have been talking for a little more than a month and then met last night. It appeared there was interest from him and I am interested on my end. When we met, he did not make any moves, but seems shy (very gentleman like and obvious he enjoyed himself). How long after meeting do guys usually wait to contact another these days? Is there a "guy" rule?
Mahatma Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 I believe the silly "rule" is 3 days. I do not go by it, but he might.
colosseum Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 If he's particularly shy, he might mess things up by thinking too much. Give him a call yourself, maybe?
Author mistieyed Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 haven't heard a word since he got home (early hours of Saturday morning) - I am starting to think he might just not be into me. this bites!
dreamergrl Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 haven't heard a word since he got home (early hours of Saturday morning) - I am starting to think he might just not be into me. this bites! Last Saturday? I'd give him a call. If he doesn't respond, he's not interested.
alphamale Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 How long after meeting do guys usually wait to contact another these days? Is there a "guy" rule? for me its two or three days unless i said otherwise. like, sometimes on a first date i may need time to decide whether i want to see her again and i'll tell her i'll call within the next week or so. on the other hand i've also called some women the next day if i thought we both had mutual interest. its really a case by case decision
Author mistieyed Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 Last Saturday? I'd give him a call. If he doesn't respond, he's not interested. sorry, I meant Friday morning - as in this week.
Author mistieyed Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 probably just being ridiculous, but we chatted daily up until then and after meeting, of course you want to know if they are interested (meaning contact me!) the waiting is the hardest.
dreamergrl Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 sorry, I meant Friday morning - as in this week. So yesterday morning? Then you're being to anxious.
Author mistieyed Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 So yesterday morning? Then you're being to anxious. I am sure you are right, just started to panic since we talked daily up until then and now no contact. Did I say I hate dating?
dreamergrl Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 I am sure you are right, just started to panic since we talked daily up until then and now no contact. Did I say I hate dating? It's okay, I get like that too. Just let a few days pass
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