juschilln Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Im not really lookin for advice just looking for insight on a certain action. over the past month and a half me and my ex girl have had a wierd relationship...We have been off and on but basically we were together just because of the simple fact of we couldnt be away from each other nothing really changed just for some of that time we didnt have a title i dont think this was a mistake based on the things that were said and contact was mutual. A day ago we officially made it obvious we werent going to be together im not really worried about contacting her im a strong person im def. not gonna give in but i do care and love her and deep down i want to be w her but no longer have high hopes. The insight im looking for is...the reasoning she broke up w me was bc she said "she loved me but wasnt in love w me" and that she doesnt see herself w me and thats all fine but that being said 3 days before she said all this she blew up and made a scene bc she thought i was "talkin" to someone else which wasnt going on. im just lookin for some answers i dont understand how you get mad and upset even if i am talking to someone else if you dont see yourself with me in my opinion she just doesnt know what she wants i dont know any comments would be greatly appreciated
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Yes it is pretty obvious that she doesn't know what she wants. Yet on the other hand she may be insecure for other unknown reasons but young ladies (some not all) are like that and nothing can be done about it. They'll figure out what they want sooner or later but just make sure you know what you're searching for and go look for it.
Exit Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 Sounds like a chain reaction to me. She blew up about that for no reason (jealousy or trust issues with her) and then a few days later realized she didn't want to be with you. It was never a serious relationship in the first place so I wouldn't bother hoping for it to work out. You say you're strong enough to move on and that is probably your best bet.
boogieboy Posted June 8, 2009 Posted June 8, 2009 It drives women crazy when they dont want you anymore, and you looked like you moved on too fast. She is really confused. She doesnt want you but doesnt want you to have anyone else. If you dont want to be with her, then cut her off clean. If you want the drama and games, then let her think you have someone else already.
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