nicolas465 Posted October 28, 2003 Posted October 28, 2003 This is something i don't understand... why don't women date younger guys? I mean..ok the obvious answer outta some ppl will be the lack of maturity... but there's got to be another reason. say the guy is mature... so wat's the deal w/not likeing younger men?
Ouch2 Posted October 28, 2003 Posted October 28, 2003 I am an older women with a younger guy. How old are you and how much older is the ladies you are talking about? My b/f is awesome he is very mature for his age and is perfect for my immature self. So if you want to think older women don't like younger men you are wrong. As long as your not a minor. Keep looking and good luck
jenny Posted October 28, 2003 Posted October 28, 2003 sure, why not? just as long as they have something to offer intellectually/emotionally/sexually? where are you that women refuse to do this?
VelvetShadows Posted October 28, 2003 Posted October 28, 2003 [color=violet] Nothing wrong with dating a younger guy, at least i dont think so... I am 30 and i am with an 18 year old.. and he shows heck of a lot more maturity then other men i have dated in the past. There are downfalls to it. Like i am ready to start on my family.. he isnt ready for that... but oh well, age is just a number... and because of the way society has always been , we've all been raised that it was not approriate for a younger man to be with an older woman... but i think its also going back to way it use to be that the man was always suppose to be the one bringing home the bacon and us woman being in the kitchen, pregnant and waiting on our man hand and foot... Just wish the world would wake up and smell the coffee and be more excepting of stuff that wasnt the norm a few years back.... But anyway, i could ramble on about this topic for hours so i am shutting up now... Toodles Velvet [/color]
TremblingBluStar Posted October 28, 2003 Posted October 28, 2003 Well, I'm generally attracted to women younger than myself for a variety of reasons, such as the fact that I'm not ready to be serious, and I'm still in college. I'm sure there are women out there who feel the same way I do about younger guys. However, to be honest most of the women I know date older guys, not younger.
Bubbles Posted October 28, 2003 Posted October 28, 2003 Hey TremblingBluStar, Here I am......I'm an older woman......wanna have a fling? WOWSERS ladies look at this guy! And now on a serious note: in my humble opinion an older woman would not date a younger guy because #1 it is NOT socially acceptable to us ladies (notice who I blamed this on?) we are very quick to call men pigs or cradle robbers if a man is dating a "younger" woman so why would we do it? Maturity is a good reason NOT to date a younger man BUT for SSSEEEEXXXXX it is a great idea to date a younger man. To each their own.......I have dated a younger man in the past and yes, it was strickly for the sex. Men at my age can't seem to keep up with me. So I tried it and I kept him around for about a year and that was enough. I set him free so he could "grow-up" I felt like I was holding him back from doing all those stupid things that 20 year olds do. Bubbles
Holly Posted October 29, 2003 Posted October 29, 2003 I'm dating a younger guy. It's only about 2.5 years difference, and it really didn't matter to me. We started dating when he was 17 and I was 20...now he's almost 20. My guy is pretty mature for his age but only this year did he start attending the university I'm at. Sometimes life experiences can mar things between an couple with an age gap; one person may be at a certain point or readiness and the other is not. On the other hand, I tend to believe chronological age doesn't matter as much as the emotional and mental age. My boyfriend is very sharp and driven and does many things uncharacteristic for his age group. So, I think you should rethink your assumption! Maybe a few older girls have not taken your offer for a relationship or a date in the past, but I'm sure there are a few others who would. It certainly does happen more than you'd expect. And a few years really isn't that much. If you're talking a 10 year difference, that may be another story completely.
VelvetShadows Posted October 29, 2003 Posted October 29, 2003 Yep yep... peer pressure... Really if your confident with yourself, who you date and what others think. It shouldnt matter... Follow your heart but listen to your mind...
Lisa Marie Posted November 19, 2003 Posted November 19, 2003 Hey guys.....my boyfriend is 16 years old and im 20 and i couldnt be happier. I used to make fun of girls who dated younger guys and then i met fraser. He rocks and im in the best relationship i've ever been in. We've been together for 6 months now and i couldnt be happier......
Arabess Posted November 19, 2003 Posted November 19, 2003 HAHA Bubbles.....I noticed that too...... I work on a Navy base where the guys between the ages of 19-21 are EVERYWHERE! Most of them are just SOOO CUTE! I've made the joke before if I was within that age bracket....I'd be permanently bow-legged! I wouldn't date a guy who was THAT young....cause chances are we wouldn't have too much in common. I do generally date guys who are 5-10 years younger than myself though. I've never found age to be an issue.
SoleMate Posted November 19, 2003 Posted November 19, 2003 I love younger guys - just looking of course. They seem so fresh and energetic and straightforward and beautifully unconscious of their charm. I'd love a younger guy, and if I weren't married now, I'd definitely be playing with (perhaps not marrying) a 22 year old (I'm 40). The great thing is that they seem interested too! Best thing Demi Moore ever did was snag that young boy...(if they're still together?)
lostforwords Posted November 19, 2003 Posted November 19, 2003 Ive dated younger men..... thats all i seem to attract is guys 10 years younger than me..... after my last relationship (he was 20 and an aspiring actor/singer/songwriter) and yes he was awesome however..... some where down the road it had to end.... i sort of outgrew the novelty LOL... and i just cant seem to shake this younger guy olderwoman relationship.... no wi have a rule NOT to date anyone 5 years younger than me....
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