brock9911 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 first the heartbreak of your ex of 8 years dumps you because she blames me of cheatting, when she cheated on me. it also didnt end very well. i than go and live on my own to very quickly after that meet this girl. both of our intentions were to hook up, but we both started liking each other, and she kinda slowed things down to not give a bad impression. she wants to hang out and talk and be wit me almost every day. my anxiety acts up from time to time. lately about the fact that am i using her to get over my ex, but than i say, maybe i didnt love my ex and i do actually have feelings for this girl. but you know what, f it, shes gonna be leaving in a week for a school summer at see where she studies abroad, than back away to college. im just gonna be in the same boat from when my ex dumped me. any insite of what the hell im supposed to do, if anything at all
NJAries Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Dude, I'd say just enjoy it while it lasts. Don't put all your eggs in one basket so to speak, however. I know what you mean though, you finally find someone you're interested in and everything goes and friggin changes. I'd be extremely cautious while she's away at school though, that's how I lost my gf. Anyway, it's the summer of love man, just enjoy it while you can and get to know her and fully appreciate each moment you spend with her if you really like her. No sense in cutting something off before it even has a chance to begin.
Author brock9911 Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 True, we decided to not have anything because of the circumstances. it just sucks that you find the person that puts a smile on your face whenever you talk and now there gonna be gone. what sucks more is she wont even be here for the summer, she'll be studying abroad on a cruise ship through the mediterranean. but... theres no way i can try to start something if shes leaving in a week, there was just not enough time get things rolling. maybe thats a good thing though, cuz if i had more time, id have more trouble letting go
wow123 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Brock, I know you were really hurting. Is this new girl helping you get your mind off your ex and heal? I'm still hurting and looking for anything I can do to get my mind off her.
NJAries Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Brock, I know you were really hurting. Is this new girl helping you get your mind off your ex and heal? I'm still hurting and looking for anything I can do to get my mind off her. Work out. Seriously, it helps. Not only with the physical part, but it also helps with endorphins (sp?) which help make you feel better, even if temporary. So it's like a double shot, the endorphins and the increase in confidence from (hopefully) making gains in the gym will help boost your attitude. Everytime I go through a tough breakup/time of my life, I hit the gym hard. It works. -Aries
Author brock9911 Posted June 9, 2009 Author Posted June 9, 2009 wow123, the new girl was the best thing that could have happened, cuz shes making me feel better than i have in a really long time. we've had heart to hearts about our situation and how she like me and i like her yada yada. and in the past 2 weeks, we have almost 1400 texts, we seriously like each other, but....... she leave and thats another heart breaker. now im back to my funk cuz i dont want her to go, but i cant stop her, her life n career is more important than a brand new relations NJAries, yeah the working out deffinitly helps. i usually work out or play sports. im on a hockey league and i play handball alot. both physical and get your heartrate pumping which deff helps. iv also started taking up baseball again. anything to keepo myself busy, and sto stop me from drinking which is getting out of hand.
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