oscakool Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Hey guys, I don't see a lot of posts tonight from men looking for advice on their dating life, so I thought I'd open up a thread for that. Feel free to post your issues, questions, concerns, whatever it is you would like some help on. I will check this thread tomorrow and answer your questions and give you the advice you need, so drop off your question here before you head out. Thanks guys!
zhsoj Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I'm curious... Are you trying to launch a career as a dating counselor or something?
carhill Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I'll be happy to oblige once your signature conforms to our community guidelines I'm a former "fixer" and should have a son about your age, but life doesn't always work out that way. Good luck!
Author oscakool Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 Er, well, it is what I do for a living. Almost every weekend, I'm either traveling somewhere to speak to people, or I'm working with a client 1-on-1 on their issues. I like forums because I enjoy helping people that have questions. I used to be the same way, not having an answer and not knowing why my dating life sucked. What it comes down to is that every guy deserves to find a great woman (and vice versa). Unfortunately, today's society has screwed everything up and most people are either in horrible relationships, or they have trouble even talking to the opposite sex. I used to be that way but I fought through it and changed my life around, and now I am helping other people that were in the same predicament as I was. The worst thing anyone can do is NOT seek help.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Er, well, it is what I do for a living. Almost every weekend, I'm either traveling somewhere to speak to people, or I'm working with a client 1-on-1 on their issues. I like forums because I enjoy helping people that have questions. I used to be the same way, not having an answer and not knowing why my dating life sucked. What it comes down to is that every guy deserves to find a great woman (and vice versa). Unfortunately, today's society has screwed everything up and most people are either in horrible relationships, or they have trouble even talking to the opposite sex. I used to be that way but I fought through it and changed my life around, and now I am helping other people that were in the same predicament as I was. The worst thing anyone can do is NOT seek help. But don't you think you're just kind of forcing the issue? Trying to get people to post their problems instead of just letting them post because of their own accord? BTW, what about girls, we need the advice too.
Author oscakool Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 But don't you think you're just kind of forcing the issue? Trying to get people to post their problems instead of just letting them post because of their own accord? BTW, what about girls, we need the advice too. Yea, I only posted last night because I couldn't find any topics Ha ha, ask away girls! I've honestly dealt with EVERY type of guy out there.
lizzylizliz Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Ok, help me then please! (many thanks to Carhill for already helping me out, I'd just like another view or two)....what's the best thing to do with a guy who randomly says he needs space, won't see me all week because he needs 'time to decide' what he wants, has been texting a little and called the other day...but won't commit to spending any time with me? Should I just tell him where to go straight out, or just wait and leave it, and see what he does, and if he ever wants to see me again? We've been together 5 months, he has kids from another relationship, and is very insecure about himself....
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