little101 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 this guy and i hooked up at the very beginning of summer last year we were pretty drunk and it didn't mean much to me. i ran into him once again at a party over winter and we ended up hanging out the whole night together i was leaving for a trip the next morning, so i thought we wouldnt get to hangout b4 he left to go back up to his college, so that night i gave him a ride home he tried kissing me but i went in for the just hug ordeal. i ended up getting 4 missed phone calls from him one night a couple days after i got back from my trip. it was at about 1 or so in the morning he left me a voicemail saying he was leaving the next morning and wanted to see me b4 so i let him come over. he was completely plastered and i was sober we ended up having sex and passing out for awhile after. i ended up seeing him again recently i was completely hammered and wasted he was sober. we decided to leave my two friends alone cause they needed some time and he and our friend and i went to his house for alittle he kept pinching my butt when our friend wasn't looking which i thought was kinda funny we ended up having sex again that night as well once we got back at my friends house, after he had the respect to tell me he had a thing with someone back up at college, i would have not known at all if he had not told me and he knows i wouldn't have known unless he said something. he was in a rush because he needed to go back up to college b/c he was moving out since he is planning on traveling for a year so he left alittle after since his ride came. about 5 days later he texted me saying he was coming down for the night and that we should hangout and go to his house i agreed. 100 percent sober we both ended up having sex for a good 2 hrs and i don't know what to think of it. the fact that he is willing to come all the way down here to spend one night with me again to me seems like enough proof but i almost feel like it might just be him wanting more. i don't really know what to think is he considering me as a possible relationship or just another hook up?
Shock Me Sane Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 It seems like just a booty call situation. I mean, there's no telling if at some point in the future it could be more than that, since you're attracted to each other, but right now... no. He's obviously not in a position to be starting a relationship if he's going to be traveling for a year. If you're traveling, you're going to want to be single. I doubt the thing he has with the person back at school is going anywhere either. He's probably just playing the field right now, not ready to settle down.
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