shadowplay Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 ...to be fully satisfied? State your gender and age as well. I'm female, 25, and feel most satisfied when I have sex 5-8 times a week. Anything more than that and I tend to lose my drive. My ex claimed that he needed sex five times a day to be satisfied. What about you?
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Female, 25, 5-8 times a week sounds about right to me also, but I go through phases where I'm happiest if it's twice a day: in the morning and before bed.
Author shadowplay Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 Female, 25, 5-8 times a week sounds about right to me also, but I go through phases where I'm happiest if it's twice a day: in the morning and before bed. Ditto. My sex drive tends to wax and wane.
bean1 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Sometimes I wonder if my sex life is in the gutter or if LS just skews the perception of reality. We do 2-3x per week.
Author shadowplay Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 Sometimes I wonder if my sex life is in the gutter or if LS just skews the perception of reality. We do 2-3x per week. No, it all depends on how much sex you're having in comparison to how much you want.
kizik Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 How often do I need sex? Every twenty minutes. How long has it been since I've had sex? Over a year.
EddieN Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 How often do I need sex? Every twenty minutes. How long has it been since I've had sex? Over a year. Ditto.
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 How often do I need sex? Every twenty minutes. That's about how often I need it too, when I'm not getting any.
kizik Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 My ex claimed that he needed sex five times a day to be satisfied. Wow. Unemployed douchebag, perhaps?
Isolde Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Honestly, you can have too much of any good thing. I'd say more than five times a week is most likely unnecessary unless you're on vacation or something.
Author shadowplay Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 Honestly, you can have too much of any good thing. I'd say more than five times a week is most likely unnecessary unless you're on vacation or something. Haha. It also gets annoying when you're trying to go about your day and constantly getting groped.
EddieN Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I really don't see how people need/can do it so much. Like, I think I'd be fine with once every two weeks, maybe even once a month.
bean1 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Honestly, you can have too much of any good thing. I'd say more than five times a week is most likely unnecessary unless you're on vacation or something. That's sort of what I was thinking, too. Where do people find the time? Funny enough, I think we had more sex BEFORE we lived together which was a 1hr LDR (and of course before our little one came along), but I don't know where people find the time, between house cleaning, cooking, jobs, school, etc? LOL. I suppose we do it less often than others but it's more quality, at least I think. Since I'm fairly anonymous, I'll come right out and say that for us, it's a whole package deal (BJ, missionary, doggy, anal, etc) all in one so I prefer a few times of that than 2x more vanilla. My guy`s got a bit of the anal fetish (as opposed to boobs or BJs) so really, my ass can`t handle 8x per week Still, 2-3x a week of that is a lot more than the average guy gets, I think.
Ruby Slippers Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I prefer to have it at least once a day. If I am in a relationship and we do not have sex every day, I am disappointed. I can live with it, but I won't like it.
EddieN Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I prefer to have it at least once a day. If I am in a relationship and we do not have sex every day, I am disappointed. I can live with it, but I won't like it. Wow, all these people saying they NEED it once a day really surprises me. It really seems more like an addiction than something pleasurable to most. I've only had one sexual experience over 2 years ago, and I've been just fine since then. Now and then I'll feel a bit lonely and crave sex if I have to stay inside on a Friday night, but to me it would be a burden to have sex once a day. I think it would also get pretty repetitive and boring.
Shock Me Sane Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I'm really happy with about 8 to 10 times a week. That's usually with one or two days of rest and doing it twice, occasionally 3 times, on some days. In a LTR, I've gone through periods where we only had sex like 4 times a week, but it was because I was getting bored with the sex. Maybe I'm a little addicted. The longest I've ever gone without sex is 3 months, when I was in-between relationships, so I don't know a lot about "droughts."
m-j Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I'm 21, female, and my boyfriend is 22. We moved in together about four months ago and i'm not sure if its just me or whether we are having sex less and less. When I read the two 25 year old girls' responses of 5-8 times a week i was thinking WOW you nymphos! But I am probably the same. I would have sex every night if my boyfriend was up for it and morning sex if theres time before work. I don't like asking for it or initiating because I always come off as being sexually aggressive. And it's hard when we're not alone in the room (with our housemate) or if hes "tired". I say tired in inverted commas because arent guys supposed to be the ones wanting sex three times a day every day? Am i doing something wrong?
m-j Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I might also add that if i dont get sex one day, I end up touching myself to get off. I don't tell my boyfriend this because I dont want to hurt his feelings.
IrishCarBomb Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Am i doing something wrong? Yes, two things: 1. You fear making your needs a priority in your relationship. Guess what? It's ok to want more sex than a guy. He's probably a half-decent guy and will accommodate you (assuming he does care about fulfilling your needs). 2. You call "quotation marks" "inverted commas".
m-j Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Touche. I have always called them inverted commas, maybe its ok in Australia. I'm inspired! In fact, I am going to march home right now and seduce my loving boyfriend. He's so handsome. I'm so bored at work. I love this forum, it's great. I just love discussions. In fact, I think after I seduce my boyfriend I might have a glass of red wine and talk about life with my housemates.
Shock Me Sane Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I'm 21, female, and my boyfriend is 22. We moved in together about four months ago and i'm not sure if its just me or whether we are having sex less and less. When I read the two 25 year old girls' responses of 5-8 times a week i was thinking WOW you nymphos! But I am probably the same. I would have sex every night if my boyfriend was up for it and morning sex if theres time before work. I don't like asking for it or initiating because I always come off as being sexually aggressive. And it's hard when we're not alone in the room (with our housemate) or if hes "tired". I say tired in inverted commas because arent guys supposed to be the ones wanting sex three times a day every day? Am i doing something wrong? I'm 21, too. You definitely should tell your boyfriend you want more sex. Don't feel bad about being "sexually aggressive." You have needs.
ohdear Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 (Female) I like to have sex about twice a day but my boyfriend is less enthusiastic unfortunately.
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