mayray Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I suffered sexual abuse trauma as a really young child and develop really early at 12 look like I was 16. I never really date in high school and made out with couple random guys in college but no sexual intercourse. I fairly attractive female and a bit overweight, currently working on that. I don't look my age, most people think I in my mid 20s. I know man are attracted to me but kinda suck a flirting, because attend run in the other directions, unconsciously. Need some advised how to get over my fears, and how does go about explain they are 31 year old virgin, when the obgyn doesn't believed until explain past trauma. I don't behaved or dress like a prude and have plenty of sexual fantasy, I just can't act on them. 1) How do I explains to a guy that I 'm 31 virgin.... P.s tried talk therapy and gained 20 pounds and I'm trying to move pass my problems p.s not waiting for marriage or love, just intense like would be nice
Habeas Corpse Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I'm sorry about your sexual abuse. But who says you need to explain anything to any guy? Is it anyone's business but your own?
norajane Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Are you attracted to any of these men that flirt with you? If so, pick one and just go for it. You're turning it into a bigger and bigger issue the longer you hold off. It will become easier once you get past the virginity hurdle.
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