shadowplay Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Just wanted to report that my very overweight 24-year-old male friend got laid for the first time recently AND landed his first gf (who is nice-looking and sweet). I was so elated for him, because I was starting to feel like he'd never get a gf after hearing him whine about it for years. So how did it happen? He met the girl in a club through his university last year. He sort of asked her out, but she told him she had a bf. At first he was suspicious that she was just feeding him a line, but it turned out to be legit. Fast forward to a month ago. They started studying together regularly. He was wondering what was up. Finally he asked her if she wanted to cuddle, she eagerly agreed and told him that she was taking a break from her bf. Shortly thereafter she dumped said bf. The rest is history. I'm so happy for him. Don't lose hope! I apologize if I sound condescending, but I really mean it.
LovieDove24 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 It does indeed sound condescending. All about the phrasing muh dear
LovieDove24 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I personally would not want to be involved with a slut who cheats on her boyfriend. Lol. They cuddled while she was on a break with her boyfriend. Thats far from being a slutty cheater.
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I personally would not want to be involved with a slut who cheats on her boyfriend. Reason #742892 Gouki is 22, single, never been laid: He thinks girls who break up with their bfs and sleep with another guy are sluts. Shadowplay I'm happy for your friend!
Isolde Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 That's a nice story; thanks for sharing it. We need more of these on LS.
Citizen Erased Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I especially enjoy 24 being "old". It is to have not had sex, these days anyway.
Citizen Erased Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Uhhhhhhh...If you are haveing sex with other men while you have a boyfriend you are a SLUT. I know feminism teaches girls they can screw as many guys as they want while in a committed relationship and its OK...but a girl who has a boyfriend and has sex with other men is a slut. This girl cheated on her boyfriend and then broke up with him....this girl does not have a good track record. Thats all i know about this girl...I can only imagine what I DONT know about her. Things will not end well with OP's friend. The girl is going to start cheating on him ...but knowing he lost his virginity at age 24 and this is his first girlfriend...he will likely stay with her and continue to worship her as a demigod up until she breaks up with him when she gets bored. Yeah, having had so much experience with sex you would know. Or are you just pissed they won't screw around on their boyfriends with you? And for the record, the OP stated that her friend didn't have sex with the girl until she had broken up with her now ex. So wtf are you going on about? A few hugs while she wasn't with the guy anyway?
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Uhhhhhhh...If you are haveing sex with other men while you have a boyfriend you are a SLUT. I know feminism teaches girls they can screw as many guys as they want while in a committed relationship and its OK...but a girl who has a boyfriend and has sex with other men is a slut. This girl cheated on her boyfriend and then broke up with him....this girl does not have a good track record. Thats all i know about this girl...I can only imagine what I DONT know about her. Things will not end well with OP's friend. The girl is going to start cheating on him ...but knowing he lost his virginity at age 24 and this is his first girlfriend...he will likely stay with her and continue to worship her as a demigod up until she breaks up with him when she gets bored. Thanks for giving us reasons #742893, #742894, #742895, #742896 and #742897 OK, sorry everyone, I'm done now.
Citizen Erased Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I think it was in my day too! Yeah, most people were married by then. In the old days.
Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 WOOHOO!!!!! -for your very overweight 24-year-old male friend I bet he is dancing on cloud 9 right now. I remember the first time I got laid,,,,what a grin I had on my face for a week!!
carhill Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Yeah, most people were married by then. In the old days. D@mn Catholic guilt!
Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Thanks for giving us reasons #742893, #742894, #742895, #742896 and #742897 OK, sorry everyone, I'm done now. You forgot the 3 decimal places!!! Gouki, get a life, get positive and for God's sake PLEASE POST JUST ONE POSITIVE THING SOMEWHERE. People are obviously getting tired of your nonsense. It is obvious you are into politics, but please, if you want a debate on EVERYTHING...join a debate team.
Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 That's a nice story; thanks for sharing it. We need more of these on LS. guys you got to remember too tho, her ex is feeling probably, just the way people are in the coping/breaking-up/second chance forum are too. Do we always support the ex that left in those forums?
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 guys you got to remember too tho, her ex is feeling probably, just the way people are in the coping/breaking-up/second chance forum are too. Do we always support the ex that left in those forums? You're probably right, but no one knows why they broke up! I'm the one that left my last relationship, and I'm having a hard time with it...
Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 You're probably right, but no one knows why they broke up! I'm the one that left my last relationship, and I'm having a hard time with it... Part of me is really happy to hear that ( for obvious reasons being that I hope my ex feels that way) and part of me just wants to give you a big hug....or an overweight 24 year old!!:pXD
Author shadowplay Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 guys you got to remember too tho, her ex is feeling probably, just the way people are in the coping/breaking-up/second chance forum are too. Do we always support the ex that left in those forums? I don't know that much of the history, but she's 22 and had been with this guy for like 5-6 years. She wanted to move on.
Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 i was with my ex fiance for 5 years. she is 25....I was gutted LOL sorry, just realsied Im being a downer!! GOTTA KEEP SMILING!!!!
Lights Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Just wanted to report that my very overweight 24-year-old male friend got laid for the first time recently AND landed his first gf (who is nice-looking and sweet). ... Finally he asked her if she wanted to cuddle, she eagerly agreed and told him that she was taking a break from her bf. Shortly thereafter she dumped said bf. The rest is history. I'm so happy for him. Don't lose hope! I apologize if I sound condescending, but I really mean it. I'm amazed. Though I'll admit I've never asked someone to cuddle. I should try that sometime once I work on getting more basic approaches to work.
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Not everyone is over their bf by the time they actually end it! Geez I hate this thread now, I might have to start another thread of my own in the coping forum:mad: LOL or maybe I'll just start dating and post in the dating forum *sigh*
Author shadowplay Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 i was with my ex fiance for 5 years. she is 25....I was gutted LOL sorry, just realsied Im being a downer!! GOTTA KEEP SMILING!!!! Despite my poor word choice in the OP, I had the impression their break-up was more mutual and had been in the works for awhile. They had been "on break" for several months so they could both see other people. Then she finally cut if off completely.
Author shadowplay Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 Its ok im just being a numpty No worries. I'm still sore about the way my ex broke it off with me. Just wanted to add a good story to the mix.
Cherished Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I know a 38 year old virgin, and he has a lot of inner anger about life and is a very bitter person. He has become a person that no woman would want anyway.
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