BCCA Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 Youre just always the victim. I see nothing from you but what you hate about guys, and what youre not going to tolerate, and how terrilble everything guys do it, yet you completely refuse to take a look in the mirror. You forget that you were trying to find a sugar daddy, which to me is infinitely worse than looking at porn to masturbate. On top of that, youve added 'does not look at other women' to your already ridiculous list of 'must haves'. Seriously? A guy cant look at a woman? Are you going to never look at guys then? Probably not. Youre another person who doesnt want help, just shoulders to cry on because life isnt perfect. You blame porn/strip clubs for your problems with men, when the problem is 100% YOU. You want to own a guy, not be in an equal relationship, and youre so insecure, you think that looking at porn makes a guy more turned on than you. Any women with an ounce of self esteem realizes that her bf looking at porn to whack off means hes not out looking at other women or bothering her if shes not in the mood, which is a good thing. You just want to call every shot, and when you realize how nonsensical that is, you just completely give up. Poor Megan, no one wants to be your slave/bf. Seriously, grow up already.
lovestruck818 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 You're right. That's why I am remaining single until I die. I don't want to marry or even get into a committed relationships. Maybe I'll have a few flings here and there but I am not going to accept a man looking and admiring other women than me,religiously viewing porn, strip clubs or anything else. So you are telling me that in past relationships you have NEVER looked at another man? Come on, get real. It's human nature.
fishtaco Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 So you are telling me that in past relationships you have NEVER looked at another man? Come on, get real. It's human nature. She's just there to throw tantrums. She's not here for advice.
clv0116 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I've been thinking about this the last few months and maybe being single is the best thing for me. Love drama much?
Author MeaganRaye Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 So you are telling me that in past relationships you have NEVER looked at another man? Come on, get real. It's human nature. No, I didn't. Partly because most of the men I see aren't all that attractive to me. and at the time I was so happy and ecstatic that I found a guy who actually wanted to be in a relationship w/ me, & go places in public. It is to this date my first and only relationship ever. He wasn't what I really wanted but he came close. I never looked at any other guys or expressed any interest really
Isolde Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 No, I didn't. Partly because most of the men I see aren't all that attractive to me. This might be part of the problem. When you don't see the good things (physical and personality) in people you encounter in your daily life, how will they see good things in you? It took me a while to figure that one out.
kostoronto Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 If you want, you could be my girlfriend for a day and then you won't be single for your entire life. Sure, you'd be a statutory rapist for a day, but no pain no gain, right?
LovieDove24 Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 She's just there to throw tantrums. She's not here for advice. Yes she's throwing a tantrum but if we all dig a little deeper we'd see that this woman is merely acting as an adolescent trapped in an insecure woman's body. She is crying out for help IMO. Meagan, you stated that living without male attention is the absolute worst existence possible, but now what you're doing is going to the complete opposite end of the spectrum and YOU are avoiding THEM. Do you see how this is a no win situation as well? You are being dishonest with us, and more importantly, dishonest with yourself trying to convince us that you want to remain single forever. In fact, that is the complete opposite of the truth, isn't it? What you want MOST in life is the attention of males and love from them isn't it? But because you are so afraid of rejection from the one thing you want the most, you choose to steer away from it. Nowww we can dig a little deeper....
CandiceIsMe Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Perhaps you should look at what you are truly looking for, before writing the opposite sex off Meagan
mr.dream merchant Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 No, I didn't. Partly because most of the men I see aren't all that attractive to me. and at the time I was so happy and ecstatic that I found a guy who actually wanted to be in a relationship w/ me, & go places in public. It is to this date my first and only relationship ever. He wasn't what I really wanted but he came close. I never looked at any other guys or expressed any interest really I believe it Meagan. And even if you did look at another guy, it was probably just an "oh he's nice looking" look, not a "desire to ride him into the sunset" look. For some people, monogamy is much more of a challenge than it is for others like Meagan. If you're finding yourself burning with desire with every pretty/handsome face you see other than your SO, maybe you have some self learning to do, and reconsideration of why you're in a relationship.
oscakool Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 I've been thinking about this the last few months and maybe being single is the best thing for me. I don't want a man who looks at porn, visits strip clubs, and looks at other women. It's hard to find a man who doesn't do all three. It irritates and annoys me so much that I'll be a spinster. Some women can adapt but I can't. Unless I find a guy who doesn't do all three than I will not be attempting a serious relationship in my whole life There are men that don't look at porn and don't visit strip clubs (myself included), but you will not find a man that doesn't look at other women. And there's nothing wrong with looking at other women so you're gonna have to get over that.
Author MeaganRaye Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 Yes she's throwing a tantrum but if we all dig a little deeper we'd see that this woman is merely acting as an adolescent trapped in an insecure woman's body. She is crying out for help IMO. Meagan, you stated that living without male attention is the absolute worst existence possible, but now what you're doing is going to the complete opposite end of the spectrum and YOU are avoiding THEM. Do you see how this is a no win situation as well? You are being dishonest with us, and more importantly, dishonest with yourself trying to convince us that you want to remain single forever. In fact, that is the complete opposite of the truth, isn't it? What you want MOST in life is the attention of males and love from them isn't it? But because you are so afraid of rejection from the one thing you want the most, you choose to steer away from it. Nowww we can dig a little deeper.... Because every guy that I like never likes me back. I never get exactly what I want in a mate. And I hate dating. I've had friends hook me up on blind dates and they turn into disasters, the guys end up not liking me, and then my friends would laugh at me behind my back about how I'll never get a boyfriend. The last attempt at dating was 2 years ago and it damaged my self esteem so much taht I just buried myself away from teh world. It felt so much safer that way
missdependant Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Youre just always the victim. I see nothing from you but what you hate about guys, and what youre not going to tolerate, and how terrilble everything guys do it, yet you completely refuse to take a look in the mirror. You forget that you were trying to find a sugar daddy, which to me is infinitely worse than looking at porn to masturbate. On top of that, youve added 'does not look at other women' to your already ridiculous list of 'must haves'. Seriously? A guy cant look at a woman? Are you going to never look at guys then? Probably not. Youre another person who doesnt want help, just shoulders to cry on because life isnt perfect. You blame porn/strip clubs for your problems with men, when the problem is 100% YOU. You want to own a guy, not be in an equal relationship, and youre so insecure, you think that looking at porn makes a guy more turned on than you. Any women with an ounce of self esteem realizes that her bf looking at porn to whack off means hes not out looking at other women or bothering her if shes not in the mood, which is a good thing. You just want to call every shot, and when you realize how nonsensical that is, you just completely give up. Poor Megan, no one wants to be your slave/bf. Seriously, grow up already. I agree with this one. I for one, can say I used to be very insecure; always feeling sorry for myself.. never paying attention to the REAL things in life, always the superficial. It was impossible to look deeply at things; it was always the shallow surface. I was very guarded, and felt victimized for everything that I did or anything someone did for me whether it was good or bad. When I realized that everyone else wasn't the problem (it was ME!), I became much more accepting of people (this was when I was about 17, by the way). I stopped focusing on their looks and started looking at WHO they are. I knew who I had become, and didn't want to live my life that way.. and I changed myself. I look back at myself THEN and have NO sympathy. It was my own stupid fault for feeling that way and wasting my life away with trivial, unimportant drama. That said, I have no sympathy for people like MeaganRaye. They take out their horrible self-image on others and expect everyone to cater to the fact that they're mental. And yes, Meagan.. you are VERY ugly. If you're as ugly on the outside as you are inside, no one will ever want you. The ugliness of your heart and soul will drown out any physical beauty you have. No one will ever see any positive qualities about you. They'll see your surface, and realize that you're just a mean, hateful person.. and NO ONE in their right mind wants that. If you want to live your entire life that way, then more power to you. Sounds like a pretty miserable life. Or maybe you can learn to accept the fact that life isn't all about looks or feeling sorry for yourself, and work at becoming a better person. Then people might like you more, and people MIGHT actually want to get to know you.
carhill Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 The last attempt at dating was 2 years ago and it damaged my self esteem so much taht I just buried myself away from teh world. It felt so much safer that wayWhen you come to die, will safe be at the top of the list of memories you want to have? Perhaps, now, that's the case. When the time comes, you'll give anything for one more wild day, one crazy moment, one more breath of stale, polluted air. You'll reach out for a hand which isn't there. Think about that....
missdependant Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 I did not have a good adolescence. I spent my teen years being completely non existance to guys (did not date, did not have sex, or anything) and it was the worse years of my life. I did have a friend in high school who played matchmaker with this guy from another school, we had a telephone semi long distance relationship. He never wanted anybody to know that he was dating me because I was not pretty enough. I would never want to go back to those years being the way I was, looking the way I did. I was so lonely, and rejected and felt that I missed out on so much that I never want to go without male attention again. It is just the worse existance you can ever be in. I am so glad that I grew up to be pretty Wow. Your life was so hard. You almost made me forget that there are kids growing up in meth-houses, kids starving to death in foreign countries, children dying of leukemia who would give the world to be able to live that long and see life as a teenager; kids watching their parents and villages being murdered in wars. Give me a break.
Author MeaganRaye Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 Wow. Your life was so hard. You almost made me forget that there are kids growing up in meth-houses, kids starving to death in foreign countries, children dying of leukemia who would give the world to be able to live that long and see life as a teenager; kids watching their parents and villages being murdered in wars. Give me a break. I know there are ppl worse off but that still doesn't make my own problems any easier for me.
missdependant Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 I know there are ppl worse off but that still doesn't make my own problems any easier for me. Well then you are a horribly disturbed, selfish child. Get help.
Touche Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Well then you are a horribly disturbed, selfish child. Get help. (Hey, can I use that as my signature?)
missdependant Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 (Hey, can I use that as my signature?) Hahaha, I wouldn't care
Touche Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Hahaha, I wouldn't care Thanks! And yeah, Meagan just get over it will you? My teen years were a copy of yours and things turned out well for me. I have a wonderful husband.
Author MeaganRaye Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 Thanks! And yeah, Meagan just get over it will you? My teen years were a copy of yours and things turned out well for me. I have a wonderful husband. Yeah, you ended up with a husband out of the deal. I don't have anybody.
Author MeaganRaye Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 which tells me that you are insecure. Women in print or TV should not be threatening to someone unless they have security issues. You need to work on yourself rather than projecting onto others, how horrible they are for looking at porn or God forbid at another woman on TV. Nobody can possibly maintain that much control of everything... it's suffocating you Meagan. You need not worry so much about what other people are doing... time to focus on yourself and you will eventually see that all men are not as terrible as you think. I can't help it. Women with certain features can get the type of men that I am mostly attracted to so I see them as a threat. My features don't get me the type of men I want
missdependant Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 I can't help it. Women with certain features can get the type of men that I am mostly attracted to so I see them as a threat. My features don't get me the type of men I want Poor, Poor MeaganRaye. Life really is hard.
Touche Posted June 6, 2009 Posted June 6, 2009 Yeah, you ended up with a husband out of the deal. I don't have anybody. So what's your point? I didn't find him until I was 33. You're ONLY 23, dear, right? You have plenty of time. You act like your whole life is already pre-determined or something.
Author MeaganRaye Posted June 6, 2009 Author Posted June 6, 2009 So what's your point? I didn't find him until I was 33. You're ONLY 23, dear, right? You have plenty of time. You act like your whole life is already pre-determined or something. I'm supposed to be in my prime right now. I don't want to wait until I am that much older to find teh right man. Besides, I plan on being single forever. I don't want to deal with all the baggage that comes with a relationship. By then I'll have to worry about him looking and desiring younger women.
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