Sprig Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 Hey I was wondering if anyone else has gone through a period where they just have no interest in dating? The last three years of my life I have been pretty dedicated in looking for that special someone and had two girl friends both of which broke up with me and of course broke my heart. In the last couple months, I've lost almost all interest in dating and looking for someone. I feel like waving the white flag of defeat and just giving up. I have accounts on two of the dating web sites and I have gals sending me messages and I almost have to force myself to even read their e-mails. I simply don't care anymore. It's really quite strange as I have in the last three years been so focused on finding someone and now not so much. I even have a date tonight with a girl that has sort of been pursuing me a little off one of the web sites and I really could careless if we actually go out. Now to further complicate things there is a girl I'm interested in, but she knows nothing about it. We're sort of friends and have a lot in common. I would like to sort of tell her how I feel, The problem is she is incredibly busy with school we haven't seen each other for about a month and a half. We e-mail back and forth, but that's not the way I want to let her know. I am just trying to figure why it is that I have no interest in dating? The easy answer is that I am interested in this other girl, but where it confused me is even if we do talk and I tell her how I feel and if she says she is not interested in dating I think I am going to feel the same way and not want to date other people. It sort of feels like my last grasp at dating. When I think about things that make me happy now, most of the activities I think of are things I like doing alone, not even with friends. Being alone now alone makes me happy. Thoughts?
oscakool Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 Like anything else out there, when you put a lot of effort into something and it doesn't work out, people give up on it. I'd advise you to start some new hobbies, start working out, start finding things that you like to do outside of the house, make some new friends that are you find are cool, genuine guys, and start having fun. Lot's of guys are trying to find 'the one'. She doesn't exist. There are 4 billion women on the planet and I gaurantee at least 25% of them are good for you. So get out there, enjoy life, meet women in the process, appreciate what you have and your surroundings, and you'll be feeling great before you know it.
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