His E-mail Said This........

[My.Heroine]

(RECAP) My b.f of 6 years decided a month and a half ago to call it quites as I was not willing to "change my snotty attitude" and b.c we argued frequently. (he had suggested taking breaks in the past but this time i think it was a breakup from his end maybe it was just to panick me, makin me think "o no he's serious i better get him back" im not sure.

But this time i heard about NC and i thought i would try it as hard as it was to break that desperate behavior (aghhh glad i didnt do it this time! looks so insecure!!). I think he thought i would be running back just as fast as he shut me out. The last thing i had told him was that i agreed to the breakup and that i would let him go do his thing and that he has space to fiqure out wat he wants to do.

A few weeks later after not calling, txting, or replying to the few meaningless ones he sent me, he called asking if i wanted a couple of worthnothing belongings that were at his house. I told him no and that i had recieved his messages about it but that i didnt repsond b.c i have to begin moving on and that means i cannot keep contact w. him no longer. I told him that he should not contact me anymore unless it had to do with reconciling.

(NEW INFO) a week later, he sends me an email (but goes and deletes it this morning b4 he thought i read it) and this is what it said

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(HIS EMAIL) "hey howz it going, i got aquestion......i kno u dont want to talk to me and wat not so this is the last i will bug ya but i would like to kno how u still feel about me and if u still want nothing to do with me or if i should just forget everything and move on or u just rather move on and date other ppl. cause it hurt that day i talked to u and u not wantin to talk and giving everything back so ya that made a strong statement so i dont even kno wat way to go so ,anyways il let u go and thanks for everything u ever done for me."""""

i dont wana seem like a pushover, i want to reconcile, but i dont want this relationship to go in his power again so how do i respond. Or do you think he will make further attempts at contacting me if i ignore it?

( He's 22 im 20. He continues to drive by my house and he signs onto my msn often)

Please, any advice on what i should say or do, and still be taken seriously?!?!?!?!?!? THANK YOU THANK YOU =) =) x0x0x0

[NiceGuy4Ever]

Hmm. A lot of slang. Well anyways the power is now shifted to you. You can keep it there and feed him bit by bit and keep him hanging if he truly feels this way through messages given sparingly. It's risky though and if he's the one that broke up with you then he might hurt you again. If you ignore it and he does feel for you he is definitely going to seek a response. Just be careful where you tread. Hope this helps

[TaraMaiden]

A lot less slang would help.

I understood too little to be able to input any help.

Sorry.

Best of luck.