desertsun09 Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 Someone stop me from humiliating myself......I'm the one who's pregnant with her ex-boyfriends baby. He has clearly stated he doesn't want to be with me and has not contacted me. Why am I still trying to talk to this guy? It's gonna make me feel worse right? But I just need some closure and have questions.
loveshy Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 If you contact the guy... Just ask him anything related to the kid and nothing else... If you have money problem... or some support issues... then yeah.... Other questions are not much important other than the future of you with your kid
dont_understand Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 STOP! Don't do it! Nothing you say or do is going to make him care or want to be there. Please save yourself the stress and heartache. I know it's hard to fathom that any person could be so cold as to treat someone like this, let alone a person carrying their child. We can't force men to want to be fathers. We can only do what we believe is the right thing for our children. If you want to keep this baby, start thinking in terms of doing in on your own....maybe he'll come around, maybe he won't. Don't hold your breathe. You're going to be a mommy....eenjoy this experience and don't let this sorry excuse for a man get to you. When I told my ex everything happens for a reason and we should embrace this experience, he said that God's perfect plan for him might be for this child to NOT have him in his/her life. There are a few words that can sum up a man of this nature....weak coward is what I like best. Don't worry, hun....everything is going to work out. God doesn't make mistakes. Take care of you!
Author desertsun09 Posted June 4, 2009 Author Posted June 4, 2009 Thanks loveshy...you are right I should just focus on the baby. I know that is the logical thing to do, I just wish I could convince my heart. Thanks DU! I am trying so hard to fight the urge to call....I think I mentioned before it is making me physically ill and I want to do something to alleviate the pain. I wonder how long it will go on with him not callilng me and me getting more and more upset. I just have all these ruminating thoughts that make me crazy, for ex, is he seeing somebody, etc. I will never know the truth. --Your ex has hit a new low by saying that. He is gonna regret it at some point and it's a real shame how much he will have lost out. Anyway i think I will watch a DVD now and try to stop myself from picking up the phone. Thanks for the song by the way. I was able to find it on youtube and loved it. Perfect video too!
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