emotionalydistraugt Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 Okey Dokey, Well I've been talking to this girl for about three weeks now and I have a dilemma. She contacted me after breaking up with a long term boyfriend after finding out he cheated on her for 4 years. Alright I was a little hesitant to begin with because I dont want to be a rebound. Well she tells me she's liked me for quite some time and would think about me even when she was with her ex. That calmed my fears some. But needless to say she says she wants to wait to make it official until she isn't bothered by her ex anymore. Now I understand that and respect that decision on her part. So I put it all on her shoulders to make it official when she's ready. But my thing is that she keeps like making a point to say we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend and in all honesty it's kind of pissing me off. It's like she's rubbing my face in it. She knows I'd like to make it official and yet she still makes it a point to say it's not official. Am I being stupid or do I have a legit reason to be upset? Am I reading to much into what she's saying or what? Respond please
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