bobbylove Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 So been dating this guy for about two months now. He said to me that he feels as though I was questioning his intentions and how we interact with one another. (only spend time together at night do not really go out together as he is always super busy or has already made plans with his friends feels like he is always busy with something) He indicated to me that he needs time to figure out whether or not we would be good as gf and bf as he is still young and is not ready for a serious relationship because it scares him! He also indicated that he does not want to hurt me or make me upset if it does not work out between us as he knows that I have been hurt in the past. Also he has said that he likes me and enjoys spending time with me so he is torn between us being just friends or more than friends. He has not indicated how much time he needs to decide or figure out whether we are right for each other ...how long does he need? I think this is crazy! ....trying to figure out whether he just wants to play field shop around to see if he finds anything better or if he is really just not ready for a relationship with me~ Also he has said we cannot continue sleep togther for awhile until he is sure! Any advice>? thanks!!!
Shock Me Sane Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 Sounds pretty reasonable to me. I mean, how old are you two? Two months isn't very long. There's no reason to commit to each other already.
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