hibiscus21 Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 So i met this guy about a month ago, we have hung out 3 times. We've really hit it off, and have a lot in common. He has been such a sweet guy and treated me really great. However, we've made plans 3 different times and each time he can never meet me, they seem legitimate situations, but its incredibly frustrating. The first time, he wanted me to come hang out one night, but it was really late and i suggested the next night, he said that he was having some friends over, but it would work if i came over. That night, it ended up where he played video games all night with his friends and i never ended up going over. To me this one is valid cause he did have plans with his friends before me. The second time, he was going to come to my house to hang out after he got off work, but then later that night he ended up telling me that they had him work extra on his shift and he wasn't going to leave until really late and that they scheduled him in really early the next morning. the third time, we made plans to hang out, however, he could come over because he couldn't find any money for gas because he just payed his rent. I offered to drive to his house, but he said it wouldn't be fair to me, and that he wanted to come see me this time. Every time this happens, he always apologizes and says he will make it up to me. I realize stuff happens in life and sometimes one thing right after the other. Im wondering if that's whats happening, just a s***** week or is he blowing me off? I know it seems stupid, but a small part of me feels a little hurt. Thanks for the input.
lora22 Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 IMO, the first two situation were excusable, but #3 seems way off to me. So he wants to hang out with you, but he doesn't have gas money and apparently his car is on E (how'd he get to work?), but you going to his place isn't an option? That's BS. Just my $.02.
Author hibiscus21 Posted June 4, 2009 Author Posted June 4, 2009 IMO, the first two situation were excusable, but #3 seems way off to me. So he wants to hang out with you, but he doesn't have gas money and apparently his car is on E (how'd he get to work?), but you going to his place isn't an option? That's BS. Just my $.02. Thats what i was thinking! When i asked him again he said he would rather have a whole day to spend with me (he was saying we should hang out the next day) than just a couple hours....hmmm???
oscakool Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 I agree with Lora. What a horrible excuse. No gas money? Are you serious? God, men are so stupid these days lol. Girl, start doing your own thing. Don't waste your time texting this guy. There's plenty of other fish in the sea.
lora22 Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 T When i asked him again he said he would rather have a whole day to spend with me (he was saying we should hang out the next day) than just a couple hours....hmmm??? Oh god. So that's fine, if you two actually hung out for the whole day - or even a couple of hours! Otherwise he's just blowing smoke up your a**.
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