LostInLimbo Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 Hope to make this as short as possible, just recently I broke the NC rule, after my GF had broken up with me (3rd time) I have had NC for 2 weeks, only to get strong and heal myself, I finally did reply back to her Txt messages, in which one thing led to another, we went for coffee, where she treated me so good, like I have never been treated by her, we hung out for 4 days, as in other posts I have, here is where the problem happened, Friday Night I asked her to sleep over, she kept initiating sexual talk, and here goes, I gave in (BIG MISTAKE! on my part) we woke up and first words to me was "I gotta get going" blew my mind away I txt her on Saturday,,, took along time for her to reply, then she finally did, I txtd her on Sunday, no response, txtd again, no response, in which the next day I fianlly said, "I am not sure what I did wrong, but please atleast let me know if I should let go, and if you don't reply then I know thats my answer" she replied to me stating "I can't respond to that so I won't" I did set up counciling for us in which she agree'd to go, which is in a couple of weeks, I have had LC and only reply to when she messages me, as my last message to her was, "I won't bother you, txt me if you want", she said OK Everyday she has textd me, just once a day, and I reply (usually right away), now this is where I have an issue, or guilty feeling, she had sent me a request to be added to my contact list on my cell, in which I sent a decline, not sure why I feel guilty, she never txtd me to ask why I declined her, but I feel as though, did I mess things up by declining?, have I just pushed her away by doing it? its little hard, because I have never ever rejected her, especially when we had broken up before, in the 3 times she had left me...over a 3 yr period, btw if it matters, I am 39, she is 31.....she has 2 children (10 and 6) which I adore, who she has on weekends, but don't see them anymore, since she left Sorry for so long...I have had so much great advice on all my posts here.... TY
gypsi Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 ok well personally if someone ingored me on their contact list after being intimate with them for a long time i would ignore them and be a hard ass coz i would feel hurt so give her time she will eventually come around
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