SummerLady Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 What a great combo here. Is scared ever a good thing? I guess not. I am dating what I think to be a great guy. No problems or issues to talk about period. The problem is me. I have had 2 horrible realtionships back to back. One my ex boyfriend and one my ex husband. At some point should I come to the conclusion I can't pick a great guy for ****. And this guy shows up. He is polar opposite of both ex's. Almost two good to be true. I know I sound negative but really all in a sudden I am getting what I always wanted? Hard to believe. I am always waiting for the bull****, the other shoe to drop. With my history its hard. Anyone here have this happen? I def need counseling. I know its all trust issues..I always think what if that, or what if this? I am older and more mature now and was younger when these other realtionships started and ended, so maybe I did learn something. I hope I have a totally different experience this time. I just always wonder is it my time to have a happy relationship or my time to learn another lesson about relationships........Oh well........
Sillybunny Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 It's really hard to have faith when you've been burned in the past. There's always a chance that this guy isn't Mr. Right. But there's always a chance that he is. I think it's just a case of managing to hang on to enough confidence to keep faith. Caution is good, but not so much it damages the potential! I know how scary it is. I am constantly terrified. Good luck!
oscakool Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 You have every reason to feel the way you do. Most guys out there are total douche bags. Which is why I do what I do. I personally coach guys 1-on-1 to make them into real, attractive men without all the games. Yes, they constantly have women wanting them so it might sound like they're players, but that's what happens. Real men are as rare as super models. Every woman wants one. I hope that all you women out there meet one of my students some day
kit_kat Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 Based on what you said, I guess you're just afraid of getting hurt, AGAIN.. and after those two bad ones you can't seem to believe that yo have the right to be happy with someone who is definitely very different from the ones you have before. As of now, enjoy the moment, say what you feel and be thankful that you have someone around that makes you happy.
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