Author Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 wonder if I should push her for London???? LOL 'Still need a Chaperone for the weekend, or are you going to call it a girls only weekend?! I could do with a break!!'
Author Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 OK what the hell....I didnt send that txt yet and she just sent me this... ''My divorce is coming to an end I found out today, by thursday I should be a free woman, this is my life just starting, im so fuc*ing happy, x'' Guys...some wisdom shared please....
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 I'm not sure about London... For that last one, you should text her something like let's get a drink to celebrate your new life or whatever on x day (you know the situation with her, I don't, and I wouldn't want to seem insensitive to the fact that she just got a divorce...)
Author Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 ah, my faithful friend Lora Yeah your probably right..... To be honest, I was not even looking to sleep with her, in fact, if she had suggested it I would have declined anyway. I just wanted to chill out and spend some time with new people and enjoy myself-get away from the same small city my ex is in too, otherwise I have a funny feeling I will bump into her this weekend if i go out. Its strange, im pretty sure this is exactly how my ex feels!!! So me and Model are in opposite positions!!
Author Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 why on earth is she telling me this tho?! Her words and actions are pretty mis matched!! lol
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 ah, my faithful friend Lora Yeah your probably right..... To be honest, I was not even looking to sleep with her, in fact, if she had suggested it I would have declined anyway. I just wanted to chill out and spend some time with new people and enjoy myself-get away from the same small city my ex is in too, otherwise I have a funny feeling I will bump into her this weekend if i go out. Its strange, im pretty sure this is exactly how my ex feels!!! So me and Model are in opposite positions!! HAHA yeah, a combination of things are keeping me tied to my computer, some legit and productive, and some not so much (like stalking my ex's ex..lol I really need to get it go). I don't think there's anything wrong with texting or calling her about London, as long as it seemed pretty def. that you were going with her! Some people flake and never say "oh hey btw..." and I hate that, but who knows. I'd say if you're that excited you should def give it a shot! Sounds like you really need something to take your mind off your ex. If nothing else, being around someone you don't know well will probably force you to at least ACT like your normal happy self, right? And hey, Model might be faking, trying to have a good attitude about a bad situation...or maybe she really feels that way. I think you could learn something from her though, or get some perspective or insight just by hanging out with her while she's going through this. I haven't gone through to read all your threads, so I'm not sure of the exact situation, but you'd rather break up before the wedding than be in Model's situation (presumably bad marriage and divorce) right? That's really trite to say look on the bright side, and really I'm just rambling. BUT I think you could learn something form this girl. At least, she will distract you (and I don't mean sexually) and take you out of yourself.
lora22 Posted June 5, 2009 Posted June 5, 2009 why on earth is she telling me this tho?! Her words and actions are pretty mis matched!! lol She might not be as excited as she seems...she could be really conflicted about what's going on in her life. Maybe in some ways she's happy, other ways hurting. Maybe it's a total cover up. Maybe she's just flakey. Maybe she's feeling you out, since she knows you're hurting?
Author Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 ''wow! You sound really happy and excited! Im glad you are a positive person too. Make the best out of a crap situation. That is the spirit that will keep you happy no matter what! Life HAS only just begun...keep positive Im happy for you! Do you still need a friendly chaperone for the weekend? I could do with getting as far away from my ex as possible too, and making some wicked new friends along the way!Lets Celebrate!! lol. Please feel free to say no, I will understand SoulBear x'' Hmmm...dont know if that was the best i could have sent, but hey. Whats done is done!!! Lora you are great You will be an established member too in a month!!! WOOHOOOO!!!! I think she is happy, when i met her in town she was very bubbley and light, although I think she could be hurting some too.
Author Soul Bear Posted June 5, 2009 Author Posted June 5, 2009 wow...i got a really nice reply!! I probably shouldnt be posting this up here, but it put a smile on my face and I want to share this good fortune with my LS friends Maybe someone will learn something from it too... '''Babe of course but its been cancelled til next friday, ill need your name and **** for flights, but yes, im so up for it. You've no idea how long i have wanted this divorce for, pretty much as soon as i said 'i do'....I was 21 babe, that is very young to get married, you know, so to me life has just started. nothing can get me down again, nothing. God, ill burst if i smile anymore, ha x.'' LMAO:lmao::lmao::lmao: I think I will burst if i smile anymore!!! Thanks for your help SoulBear x
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