yonex Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 HI everyone! glad to be here I'm writing this because I'm a little concerned about this new girl I met. I'm in my late teens and she is 2 years older than me. We met at this pub/coffee type place. I really haven't had a relationship in a very long time and never kissed before. I would say she is much more experienced since we talked about previous boyfriends and such things. I think she likes me a lot and I guess I like her too. So how could I make this not be awkwardy...since you know I'm not the love guru. I'm also trying to get over this vacation fling....but I will probably never get over that really.
Habeas Corpse Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 Look her in the eye and ask her for her number. If you have her number ask her out. If you act nervous she will know and you will hurt your chances of getting the response you want. Wear really nice shoes. If she says no she was never interested in you and you need to work on your women skills.
oscakool Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 I'm assuming that since you met in the coffee shop, she has already given you her number, unless she's an employee. Look, the best way to make anything non-awkward is to be confident in yourself. Most guys end up talking waaaaay too much and thus blow themselves out. My favorite interactions are the ones where all the speaking is done through eye contact Work on your eye contact and you shouldn't have to worry about awkward situations. Remember, men are the leaders. Women follow. So, if you feel awkward, she will too. If you feel confident and comfortable, she will too.
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