JohnDoe1 Posted June 3, 2009 Posted June 3, 2009 Hello i am new to this forum and i wanted to share my problems as i have no one to talk to about this and i found this forum looking for some advice or imput. Well here it goes.. Me and my wife who have been married for 9 years and some change, we have some friends that we met a while back. they are married also and we have been hanging out with each other for a while now. doing family game nights and just watching our favorite shows together. well the thing is, is that me and the wife of the other couple always seemed to get along rather well. we would talk to each other on the phone through text messages and what not and i would flirt with her jokingly. I always had a little crush on here that i thought would never amount to anything other than that, well to make a long story short, i was away on business and we were talking and she had asked me if i liked her.. well i dont know what i had said or what i was thinking and i said that i did. well to my surprise she had admitted to me that she had feelings for me also. we talked and talked, the whole time keeping this a secret from our spouses of coarse and we made the decision that she should come to where i was at and we could spend some time together.. i was more than excited to see her as our feelings for each other were out in the open between the two of us. well she did come and we did spend some time together romantically and sexually. our affair had begun. well after this time her and her husband got into an argument for a totally unrelated subject and by this time i was back home. she came over and me and my wife were very conforting to her through this ordeal. well my wife felt very uncomfortable about this whole situation and she said that she didnt want us to get involved in their argument. I still talked to her a nd everythign and my wife felt that we were getting too close to one another and felt that we should keep our distance. well after defending the other girl, my wife was furious about the situation and accused me of having feelings for her. which is absolutely true, but her anger was more toward her thinking i had feelings and nothing else. now we dont even talk to our "friends" and i dont know if we ever will. the other girl has gone away to see her family and has left me here miserable. she will return but i feel things will never return back to normal.. what should i do?
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